People all over the world say fish are ugly. Are fish angry? Sensitive parents will teach sensitive children, and parents with strong hearts sometimes have to teach their children to be an ugly fish. This morning when I opened the headline hot list, I saw a sensitive piece of new

People all over the world say fish are ugly. Is the fish angry? Sensitive parents will teach sensitive children, and parents with strong hearts sometimes have to teach their children to be an ugly fish.

When I opened the headlines this morning, I saw a sensitive piece of news: According to Ms. Yang, when her 8-year-old daughter was taking a calligraphy class, the teacher at the training institution said she was ugly. Ms. Yang was very angry and went to the training institution to ask for an explanation. The teacher from the training institution replied that he was talking about Yu Chou, and maybe the child was too sensitive and misheard. Looking at the video surveillance, there is indeed a fish tank on the table next to the training teacher, and there are indeed two ugly fish-fire salamanders in the fish tank. And according to my daughter, the teacher didn’t point at her and say she was ugly. When she left after talking to the teacher, the teacher said to herself that she was ugly.

Regarding this issue, I personally think that even if teachers from training institutions really say this, parents and children do not need to be too sensitive. If it were me, I would tell the child that the teacher did not point at you and say you are ugly. Maybe you misunderstood. Maybe the teacher said that you did not put on your makeup well today and said you are ugly. A joke can amuse the child, but there is really no need to make this matter a fuss. This will only bring unnecessary pressure to yourself and increase the child's inner sensitivity.

Psychologically speaking, we are more sensitive to negative words, so in order to cultivate children's self-confidence, try to transform negative words into positive words. If the child is indeed average-looking, you can guide the child like this: You are the little angel that parents love the most. You are the only existence in the world and the most unique self. No one can compare with you. If someone insists on comparing with you, then you should use your advantages to compare with his shortcomings, and you will definitely compare him to death.

My daughter is also 8 years old. All the adults praise her for her beauty, but some classmates at school say her legs are not thin enough and she is not confident. I used the above method to guide her, and she really defeated the opponent and gained confidence. At the same time, I will also reason with her: Even the most beautiful person in the world cannot win the love of everyone, because people’s standards for judging beauty and ugliness are not exactly the same, so sometimes there is no need to care about other people’s evaluation of oneself and do the best. A good self is the most beautiful child.

Sensitive parents will teach sensitive children, and parents with strong hearts sometimes have to teach their children to learn to be an ugly fish: no matter what others say, I swim my own leisurely, because I hold the entire ocean in my heart. Only in this way can we cultivate children with strong hearts.