Lu Yao wrote in "The Ordinary World": "In this world, not everything that is reasonable and beautiful can exist or be realized according to one's own wishes." Indeed, we always look forward to happiness and pursue happiness, but we do not know that nine out of ten things will not

Lu Yao wrote in " Ordinary World ": "In this world, not all reasonable and beautiful things can exist or be realized according to one's own wishes." Indeed, we always look forward to happiness and chase happiness, but we don't know that nine out of ten things will not be what we want. When time drags you and me into the quagmire, it is better to deal with it calmly than to stay in it and give up on yourself. Looking forward to the ordinary, waiting for the joy of time.

Waiting is for better blooming

Cicadas have been chirping all summer, but they have been dormant for several seasons; they have been short-lived, but they have been waiting for the whole day. All harvests are the result of silent hard work and silent waiting.

Waiting is originally an important chapter in life. We often wait for a phone call, a subway ride, a New Year's wish to come true, and a reunion with the person we love after a long separation.

Bury a seed in the soil and wait for it to take root, wait for it to sprout, wait for it to bloom, and wait for it to bear fruit. Even instant noodles need to wait three minutes.

If you admit this fact, you will be much calmer and will not be anxious because of waiting. Instead, you will have a sense of calmness and tranquility.

The flower of life can also bloom in a desperate situation

American historian Cavett Robert once proposed such a law: Life can be without many things, but it cannot be without hope. No one fails by falling unless they stay down or are negative.

The real strong people can still remain calm and full of endless hope when they are in a trough, because they understand that the bottom is the beginning of a new world.

Working quietly, accumulating thick and thin

Su Shi said: "Extreme knowledge and understanding, thick accumulation and thin hair." Without long-term preparation and accumulation, how can you have full talents, and how can you change the direction of your destiny.

Don't be reluctant to stand up and rush on again because you have fallen down, otherwise you will miss the beautiful scenery; don't hesitate and flinch because the road ahead is bleak, this will only make your hopeful flower of life wither and wither; don't give up and complain about injustice just because of a temporary stumble, this will only quietly extinguish the fiery passion. Feet on the road, heart in the distance. As long as you are not afraid of the steep cliff ahead, life will not be a stagnant pool.

Only in the muddy swamp, if we always maintain confidence and an endless ambition to strive, the fruits of life will follow us like a shadow.

Because, there is never any cheating in life, everything is accumulated.