The high-praise reply was: "The sign of a person's maturity is that he can look at the world from more different angles and more integrated perspectives, and have a relatively more complex self."

01

Someone asked, "What is maturity?"

's highly praised reply was: "The sign of a person's maturity is that he can look at the world from more different angles and more integrated perspectives, and have a relatively more complex self."

Time flies by, wrinkles quietly climb onto his face, and white hair is mixed with black hair. Suddenly, he turned around and reached middle age.

always thinks that as you get older, you will be mature. Actually, it’s not. It’s just that if your mind is stable and your pattern is bigger.

Therefore, "middle-age" does not mean maturity, and it is only possible to have the following four realms.

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When the anger comes, bear it and the waves are calm.

In the eighth chapter of " stone nod ", a businessman named Wang transported a ship of silk from Suzhou and Hangzhou to sell it in Sichuan. When I passed by Jingzhou , I encountered several yamen runners.

After a check, it was found that Wang had two boxes of silk that were not reported truthfully, so he was suspected of deliberately paying less taxes. In theory, he needed to pay ten taels of taxes. When Wang was taken to the yamen, he was arguing endlessly and became angry.

After he retired from the house, he placed half of the silk in front of the yamen and burned it.

was originally a small matter, but because of anger, small matters became big things. This merchant Wang is really too impulsive.

"It's a human being, and you have a temper", but getting angry is really useless. It can't solve the problem and will make you angry. A small thing, because someone fans the flames, becomes a big thing, and the gain is not worth the loss.

When you hold back your anger hard, after a few hours, you will find that the "anger" is gone and the problem is handled smoothly. How can middle-aged people change like children, like the weather in June?

03

When difficult things come, take it and everything will be accomplished.

Scientist Aristotle said: "Two iron balls, one weighs 10 pounds and the other weighs 1 pounds. They fall from a high place at the same time. Those with 10 pounds must first hit the ground, and the speed is 10 times that of 1 pound."

Physicist Galileo thought for a long time and felt that Aristotle's words were wrong. But he didn't know where the mistake was.

In order to prove his thoughts, he decided to conduct a public experiment on Leaning Tower of Pisa - throwing two iron balls one big and one small at the same time. As soon as the

message came out, there were voices of doubt everywhere. After all, how could Aristotle refute the words casually? Everyone was waiting for the "joke".

ending is - "two iron balls hit the ground at the same time".

When people reach middle age, they are the backbone of society and will definitely encounter difficulties. Everything is innovating. We cannot read the text according to the script, we can only seek results by ourselves. If no one helps you solve difficult things, you can only seek more blessings by yourself.

Under pressure, you can move forward, which means that you are really sure of something and can actively face failure.

For example, at work, your boss hand over the most difficult thing to you. This is trust, and you must shoulder it. If you push three obstacles, or you cannot complete the task, then your work status will be difficult and your income will be damaged.

We don’t have a backbone that is hard to beat, but we must be the backbone of the family and the pillar of society.

04

people are in the trough, and they will make a comeback.

" Desperate Housewives " has a sentence: "The more you are not lucky, the more you must calm down and cheer up silently and survive it quietly."

Many middle-aged people have struggled for many years and achieved achievements, but suddenly fell from the peak to the trough, and their lives have to be pushed back and started over.

How to stand up from the trough, you have to endure for a long time.

International Snooker Ball Master Mafulin , when he was young, he participated in professional competitions many times and achieved good results. With his outstanding performance on the field, he had a wife and children, settled in the city he liked, and his life became more and more smooth.

"There are unexpected situations in the world". In 2010, he encountered a car accident. At a Norwegian intersection, he stepped on the brakes and the car was sliding on the ice, rushing wildly.Therefore, his clavicle was injured.

At the World Snooker Open in Beijing, he said: "My shoulder is injured, and there are still metal pieces in the shoulders... I love snooker."

With his obsession, he finally ushered in opportunities and peaks again and again.

If you go climbing a mountain, there will be a reality: if you want to go to the top of the opposite mountain, the first step is not to climb high, but to go downhill and all the way to the bottom of the valley.

The same is true for life. You have ideals and directions in your heart, but you still have to face the road under your feet. You must be down-to-earth in every step to get closer to your ideals.

Middle-aged people, you want to have a good position and hope to have good honors, but don’t worry, you have to experience a few more ups and downs to reach the highest point in a certain opportunity.

Suffering is the hardship that must be experienced in life; of course, if you choose to "not endure", life will be even more bitter.

05

When you have a lot of money, save a lot of money and have no worries about the elderly.

has this view: whether a person’s old age is happy will be signs from middle age.

Those who squander money in middle age will most likely have a miserable evening.

Pension insurance, medical insurance, housing, automobiles, and children’s education, all of them have to be spent on pension insurance. If you spend too much money on eating, drinking and entertainment, then you will lose the "future".

Slightly absent is not a shameful thing, but a person's vision; spending money hard and eating and drinking everywhere is not something worth showing off, but a person's ignorance.

Remember, eating all is not the same as having good health. Many familiar words are self-comfort and do not conform to the actual situation.

For example, there is wine today and you are drunk today. It is very happy to understand literally. But if you drink too much and your body is broken, what fun is there?

For example, ship to the bridge head is naturally straight . It seems that anything can be solved easily. But an old man, who has no money and is in a hurry to be hospitalized, how can he stand up straight?

The more mature a person is, the more he knows how to "prepare for the future". When life is in good times, be stingy. No matter where the money will be spent, at least "you have money to spend, don't worry."

06

There is a saying: "I quarreled with my husband and I was so angry that I didn't want to cook. But the child could not be hungry, so I put a bowl of noodles."

This is how life is. No matter what happens, life has to continue. This is the responsibility of middle-aged people.

When we are confused, we are actually too weak; when we are sad, we are actually too sensitive. Therefore, we must be a mature person, see through reality and change the status quo.

held back and his anger became calm.

has to withstand it, bad things turn into good things.

has survived, and the trough has become the starting point.

Save it, money becomes confidence.

Life has been a hundred years, and it has been a hard life for the first half of life and a blessed second half.

Author: Common people eat coarse food.

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