Time flies, what can we do?
What else is there besides enjoying the present?
For example, the daily record is just to keep the beauty yesterday
Look at the current daily playfulness and fighting between the two daughters, and you will always remember the scenes with your sister when you were a child. Is it easy to recall when you are old?
My second child has a slightly worse temper. When she wants to play with her sister, she sticks to her sister. When she doesn't want to play with her, she doesn't let her touch her. Even if her sister wants to get close, she starts crying.
This not only reminds me of myself when I was a child. When I was young, I was in the countryside. In winter, my sister and I were in the same bed as my mother. My sister was sleeping on the other end of the quilt. When I was not asleep, she always stretched her feet beside my feet. I didn’t want to, so I cried and my mother would quarrel, but she would still deliberately secretly put her feet against me. It's not to make me angry.
I don’t know if every family is the same. The youngest one is the one who is favored at home. Anyway, I am the one who is favored by my family.
Looking back now, when I was young, I became arrogant because of my favor. My sister suffered a lot of losses and suffered a lot of noise. When I was a child, I was a little too much
Now my sister and I have their own families and children. I recently realized that I was a little spoiled to my second daughter and a little strict with my eldest daughter. Try to serve as a bowl of water as possible! Otherwise, it will be unfair to the eldest daughter.
The previous part when I was facing my eldest daughter was irritable, it may be related to her menstrual period.
I feel that she is wrong in everything, I am not serious about homework, and bully my sister in life. This section clearly shows that the three of us are much more harmonious.
Today I am still praising her. She performed very well recently and didn’t annoy me anymore, and she didn’t let her sister cry.
She smiled, and I realized that it seemed that the praise was a bit late for
I will try my best to praise as much as possible and criticize less.
. As for my sister, I will try to tell her some small truths that she can understand so that she can understand that she should not be willful or rob her sister’s things.
The road to parenting is a long way to go!
It seems that if I want to be a good mother, I still have a lot of experience to learn!
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