Everyone you meet is here to save you. Dong Qing said this in "The Reader": Everything in the world is encountering, just like cold meeting warmth and rain;

Everyone you meet,

are all here to save you.

Author: Insight yebo

Dong Qing said this in " Reader ":

Everything in the world is encountering, just like cold meeting warmth, rain; spring meeting winter, time; heaven meets earth, eternity; people meet people, life.

Life, there is no encounter for no reason.

No matter who you meet, whether it is early or late, or whether the ending is good or bad, it will definitely bring you something.

During the long journey, some people convey warmth, some people lead you forward, some people teach you to grow, and some people make you love.

is on Thanksgiving Day. Thank you to the following 4 kinds of people, who are destined to come to save you.

1

Helping you, give you hope

As the saying goes, it is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is hard to find a timely help.

When you encounter difficulties, those who are willing to help you out are the nobles you are destined to be.

Singer Liang Hanwen Once had a dark day.

30 years old, Liang Hanwen failed in investment and lost almost all the money he had made before.

Not only that, his record company also went bankrupt, and his career entered a trough.

What's worse is that at this time, my mother was sick and hospitalized again.

For a long time, he had to borrow money everywhere to make a living.

Under anxiety and despair, he lost weight a lot and his hair became much whiter.

Just when he felt that he could not stand it, his friend Su Yongkang learned about his situation.

At that time, Su Yongkang was hosting a tour, so he took the initiative to invite Liang Hanwen as a guest singer and perform at his concert. After the concert of

, Su Yongkang recommended him to a record company.

Not long after, Liang Hanwen re-released a new record and then became popular quickly. His acting career also ushered in new glory.

Later, Liang Hanwen said in an interview that the person he thanked the most was Su Yongkang:

Without his help, I would not be today and would not stand on the stage again.

agrees with this sentence:

"Fate is always linked together. Someone pushes you ruthlessly, and someone gently catches you."

Everyone will meet such a person in their life.

When you cry, you silently hand over a tissue; when you are tired, you give your shoulders to you; when you are helpless, you extend a helping hand to you...

is their existence. Only in this occasionally cold world can we feel warmth and love.

As the musician Lin Xi said:

"We are all passers-by in the snowy night. Because of the friction between us, the snowflakes on each other's shoulders melted."

Those who help you are gifts from fate.

Thank them for helping you solve your problems, healing your pain, and adding hope to your life.

2

Those who criticize you will make you grow

There is a saying that goes: "The person who criticizes you is your enemy today and your friend tomorrow."

Hypocritical people will only flatter you and say what you want to hear.

Those who really care about you, sincerely hope you will be able to point out your shortcomings truthfully.

I read a story in the book.

Cao Yu When he was fifty, he was already a master of the drama industry and held many important positions.

Wherever he goes, he receives flattery.

One day, young painter Huang Yongyu wrote him a letter.

Huang Yongyu said in the letter that he admired Mr. Cao Yu's youthful "Thunderstorm" and " Sunrise ", and he could memorize many of the lines in it.

But he was very dissatisfied with Mr. Cao Yu's works in his later years. He said bluntly:

"Your heart is not in the play, you are wronged by your position!"

Facing such sharp criticism, Cao Yu was deeply shocked.

After some serious reflection, he replied to Huang Yongyu with a long letter, saying:

You shot my vital point.

You encouraged me.

...I wasted "mature middle-aged" and only at this age did I begin to understand.

In order to warn himself, Cao Yu also framed Huang Yongyu's letter and hung it on the wall.

Since then, Mr. Cao Yu has resigned from many positions, calmed down and created behind closed doors, and wrote a series of highly praised works, pushing his own drama level to a new level.

As the saying goes: The good medicine is good for the disease, and honest words are unpleasant and beneficial for the action.

Human nature has a weakness, it is easy to lose yourself in flowers and applause.

Only by listening to those unpleasant words can you help you recognize reality and avoid going further and further on the wrong path.

Those who criticize you are not making things difficult for you, but to make you happy.

Thanks them for pointing out your flaws outright, always alerting you, and helping you to cultivate and improve yourself.

3

People who hurt you will give you armor

Chekov once said:

Difficult and torture For people, it is a hammer hitting the blank. What is knocked out should be fragile iron filings, and what is forged will be a sharp steel knife.

Those who hurt you are using pain and lessons to make you more sober and stronger.

Jackie Chan shared his early experience in "Art Life":

When he first entered the industry to film, he once wanted to partner with a well-known actress.

As a result, as soon as the two met, the other party mocked Jackie Chan for having a big nose and small eyes, and was not good-looking.

Jackie Chan was sad for a while, but in the end he endured the discomfort and asked the other party politely for advice.

Another time, in order to let Gu Long create a character for him, he and the people from the company invited Gu Long to dinner.

At the dinner table, Jackie Chan kept toasting, the bigger the cup became, and the more he drank.

But after drinking it, Gu Long said, "My script will not be written to him, I will definitely write it to a handsome young man like Luo Lie and Yue Hua and ."

Jackie Chan said nothing, and when he arrived at the toilet alone, he finally couldn't help crying loudly.

After crying, he told himself that he must not give up and should be for those who underestimate him.

Since then, he seized every opportunity, studied his acting skills carefully, and worked hard to film.

Along the way, accompanied by others' ridicule and slander, he became more and more courageous and finally became an international superstar through hard work.

Recalling that past, Jackie Chan admitted that he did not resent them, but was grateful.

If it weren't for them, he wouldn't have worked so hard and wouldn't have become who he is today.

There is a sentence in "Jane Eyre":

"Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, and treat those who hate you and humiliate you well."

Because those who hurt you, while giving you scars, will also give you invincible armor.

Other people’s ridicule will awaken you; others’ blows can spur you forward.

The torture and pain you suffer will eventually make you transform and reborn.

Thanks to those who have hurt you, without them, you will never know how powerful you can be.

4

guides you and leads you forward

Nobel Prize in Economics winner Samuelson once said:

"I can tell you how to achieve success. One of the tricks is to have guidance from famous teachers."

Many people say that the success of Huang Zheng, former president of Pinduoduo, is inseparable from the guidance of investor Duan Yongping.

During college, Huang Zheng met Duan Yongping through other people's introduction.

In 2004, after Huang Zheng graduated with a master's degree, he received two offers, from Microsoft and Google respectively.

He suddenly fell into a tangle and didn't know how to make a decision.

Just when he was in a dilemma, Duan Yongping knew about this and told him:

"Microsoft is a big business, but Google is in a rising period and has great potential. It is easy to make a comeback if you go."

So Huang Zheng chose Google and soon entered the management of Google.

In just three years, he achieved financial freedom and accumulated a large number of high-quality connections.

Later, Huang Zheng returned to China to start a business and founded technology and game companies one after another, but they all ended in losses.

When he fell into confusion again, Duan Yongping found him and analyzed his entrepreneurial prospects for him.

Under his guidance, in 2015, Huang Zheng decided to enter the e-commerce field and found Pinduoduo.

result in just a few years, and Pinduoduo has become one of the industry leaders.

agrees very much with this sentence:

"People who are confined to the confusion of bushes and no one can give me some advice are destined to step into the abyss of mediocrity."

Everyone will have times of confusion, unable to find the direction, and not knowing where to go.

The greatest luck in life is that someone can give you advice and give you advice when he is confused.

They use experience and wisdom to answer your confusion and illuminate your future.

Thanks to all those who have guided us. It is their guidance that has allowed us to step onto a broader stage of life.

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Master Huilu once said:

"Everything in the world is the unity of all causes, and it is not something that only one person can do, so you should be grateful."

In this world, everyone you meet comes to save you.

Because of them, in this lonely journey of life, you can distinguish the direction and go more steadily and farther.

Thank you for all the encounters in life, allowing us to meet a better self.

Click like . Thanksgiving is here, don’t forget to say thank you to those who have helped you.

I also hope that you and I will be grateful and can meet the people who will travel through you at every hurdle in life.