1. You must learn to cover your ears and not listen to the bustling voices. There is no one in this world who is not bitter. The only one who can truly heal yourself is yourself.
2. High-level feelings ultimately form spirit and consciousness; low-level feelings can only become temper and emotions.
3. Sometimes people are pitiful. People who like cannot get it, don’t cherish what they get, doubts about being together, nostalgia for missing, wanting to meet each other, and regretting that they meet too late.
4. Don’t be a cheap self, don’t give at will, don’t cater to others wishful thinking. You are not beautiful when you work hard to be in a group, and you don’t have to be strongly integrated. There are different circles, so you don’t have to be strongly integrated.
5. Don’t be obsessed with the things that make you suffer, and don’t think about the past you can never go back to. Some things are given up earlier, the better the future will be.
6. Don’t think they like your shortcomings just because others spoil you, love you, tolerate you, and care for you. You should change what you should change quietly, so that you can be worthy of others’ unreasonable partiality.
7. If you cannot become a gift in other people's lives, don't enter other people's lives.
8. This city is always windy, and lonely people always go home late. The outside is not as good as you think. You have to block the wind and rain by yourself. May everyone walking alone at night be strong enough.
9. The so-called growth means that when I was in pain and sadness, I would cry, write thousands of words of logs, and I would send a text message to someone who would become like this. Now, I will only squeeze out a perfunctory smile and say insincerely that I am fine.
10. There is no need to force people who cannot be kept. Inappropriate people will eventually be separated. You may not be smart, but don’t be awake.
11. Everyone is a busy person. Busy to grow up, losing innocence. Busy to make money, ignoring the thoughts. Busy and successful, missing the scenery.
12. Most things in this world cannot be done with a little effort. The truth of this world is: we can do a little better by working very hard, but we can do it very poorly by accident.
13. You must learn to cover your ears and not listen to the bustling sounds; there is no one in this world who is not miserable, and the only one who can truly heal yourself is yourself!
14. You must believe that one day you will meet better people and have a better life. From then on, your smile comes from the heart, and your tears are crying with joy.
15. A large part of growth is acceptance. Accept parting ways, accepting the impermanence of the world, accepting loneliness and setbacks, accepting the sudden sense of powerlessness, and accepting your own shortcomings. Then change from the bottom of your heart and find a balance point. When getting along with the world, you first have to get along with yourself.
16. Comment on a thing, only by putting yourself in your shoes can you speak with a ruler and sigh with a moderation; evaluating a person, only by measuring others first can you be virtuous in your heart and merciful.
17. We can’t become the person we want to be, because we have all become the person we don’t want to be.
18. Because we care about other people's evaluations, we will wear out many edges and corners and lose out many unique personalities. The longer we care about it, the longer we care about it, we will be unable to tell whether life is for ourselves or for others to see it.
19. Don’t fight with anyone. If you love you, don’t fight. If you don’t love, it’s useless to fight. There will always be an answer to anything. Instead of worrying, it’s better to let it go.
20. If you always think that you are not worthy of a better person, then you will never be a better or even the best self. —— Zhang Xiaoxian
21. In the days to come, eat well, rest early, work hard to make money, spend money happily, don’t be angry about unworthy people, don’t have insomnia for meaningless things, come to this world, you should live freely, live well, and laugh freely.
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