On the first day of the 10th lunar month, the Cold Clothing Festival, you have to visit the graves of your deceased relatives. It will be cold. I will send money to buy winter clothes to keep warm. Hurry to my hometown and visit my lover's grave. According to the customs of my ho

The first day of the 10th lunar month, Cold Clothing Festival . If you want to visit the graves of your deceased relatives, it will be cold. Send money to buy winter clothes to keep warm.

rushed to my hometown and visited my lover's grave. According to the customs of my hometown, he fryed four dishes for him, and shed tears while frying. His voice, appearance and smile were right in front of him. Can he eat all these things? I wish I could see him eat it with my own eyes, and while eating it, I said, "Wow, it's not bad, it tastes good."

How I hope he is not sick, how I hope he can be with him until old age, how cruel it is to be separated from life and death. A living person has so many ambitions and so many beautiful wishes, but he turns into ashes, buried underground, and everything is destroyed.

No matter how much sadness and longing a loved one is, what is the benefit? He cannot bring back his life, nothing can be changed, except to cause himself to suffer and waste his time.

After crying, after thinking about it, it is still feasible to try hard to let go of this path. Let go and continue to live. You cannot let go for the time being, and don’t force it too much. If the string is too tight, it will break. Allow yourself to take it slowly. If you allow yourself, you will still fall into endless pain and longing at all times.

Just, you must have a rational and sober consciousness in your heart, know that you are in a process that must be passed, know that some pain in life cannot be avoided, and you must move forward with injuries, and try every means to relieve the pain and fade.

Life is a process of constantly saying goodbye, saying goodbye to the past, moving towards the future, and until the end of life. Life is also a process of continuous loss, losing relatives, losing health, losing life... Our possession is only temporary, and losing is eternity. Come naked and leave with nothing. Everything that seems to belong to you actually does not belong to you.

The vast universe, endless time and space, every individual is so small. If you spend your short life in sorrow in spring and autumn, then this life will be even more worthwhile. To find a way to live in a suitable way, how can you relieve your worries? Only by doing things can you enrich yourself and become more at ease and happy.

find a way that suits you, and it is great to live in this way and spend the rest of your life. People don’t have to think too much, it’s useless.