Author: Zhongquwuwen
Source: Zhongquwuwen
(ID: zhongquwuwen)
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I wonder what it would be like if you are in a bad mood?
My sadness is connected to my stomach. When I am very sad, I will feel nauseous as long as I eat, and I will vomit once after eating a few bites. It is like a question in mathematics that can fill water while releasing water.
Japanese drama "Quartet" has a very warm line, "Those who have cried and eaten can go on" .
No matter how sad it is, life must continue. How can you have the strength to stand up and face tomorrow without eating? Even if I cry today, there are still many things that will make you cry tomorrow.
Tears do not mean weakness, but you must be strong after crying . People who can eat and sleep well when encountering bad things will not be easily defeated by life.
Watch " Qian and Chihiro " again after more than a year. The scene that touched me the most was that Bailong brought to Chihiro's dinner ball. Qianxun tasted it from a small mouth to a big bite, from swallowing it to tears, as if he had spent all his strength on the matchup with the rice ball in his hand.
A 10-year-old girl has experienced many changes overnight, and her parents have become pigs. People in the strange world exclude her, and everything around her forces her to adapt and grow.
Only Bailong will bring her out and care about what she gives her food. Her nerves that have been tense finally fell apart at that moment, and then she cried heartbrokenly.
The heart-wrenching scene of eating while crying, and in " No Thieves in the World ", Wang Li, played by Rene Liu, heard that her husband had passed away, stubbornly picked up the roast duck with a dough bag, swallowed it in big mouth, and his eyes slowly turned red.
For the child in her belly, she must live strongly. The pancake tasted mixed, and there was a sad feeling that I wanted to cry but wanted to hold it in, like a thorn in my throat. I swallowed it hard and blocked my chest.
is not crying out loud, but it is also heartbreaking to watch. The sadness cannot be covered up, tears first overflowed from their eyes, and then fell like beans in the blink of an eye.
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In life, there are always some moments when you cry but no one comforts you.
In the morning, she was crying and drinking a bowl of soy milk. The pedestrian who got up early to go to work walked very quickly and did not notice the woman whose tears were mixed into the soy milk.
No one knows that she just received a notice from a lawyer and grabbed custody of her daughter. After years of marriage, I was exhausted both physically and mentally. Now that is finally free, I feel a little sad.
In the last subway, he cried and ate an pancake fruit . The tired passenger was browsing his phone, perhaps just thinking that he was blinded by the onion.
No one knows that he had just finished talking to his wife in his hometown and his son was bullied and cried to look for his father. He worked alone outside, just to support his son's tomorrow, and he was willing to suffer a little.
In a narrow basement in a foreign country, he cried and drank a bowl of white porridge. There were people coming and going outside the window, the neon lights flashed, the excitement belonged to others, and he had nothing.
No one knows that he has a high fever and just told his parents in the video that everything is OK. He was studying outside alone, shouldering the expectations of his parents and did not dare to fall down easily.
On the unmanned rooftop in the evening, she cried and ate a piece of cake. The night market downstairs was crowded with people, and people clinked glasses in front of the barbecue stall, covering up her sob.
No one knows that she just got the national inspirational scholarship , but her mother took it away by her mother to buy a computer for her younger brother. Born in a family that favors boys over girls, no one remembers her birthday, so she bought herself a small cake.
A writer once wrote that people would rather care about the eating, drinking, defecation and trivialities of a crappy movie actor than understand the turbulent inner world of an ordinary person.
forces adults to be good at hiding their worries and dare not show weakness easily. Life experience is also reminding us that if no one can help you wipe your tears and pat your shoulders, don’t cry anymore.
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I have a friend who didn’t know the depth of the workplace when he first joined the company.
His hometown is 年多年多年 , and he is more able to drink. When I had a dinner with my colleague for the first time, I was drunk, but I drank all the people on the table. When
ended, everyone who was drunk in was picked up one after another, and he was the only one left.
staggered to the bus stop, and was blown by the wind. Finally, I couldn't help it. I leaned against a tree and sat on the ground, unable to stand up, and my strong consciousness told me that I couldn't sleep.
went to the convenience store to buy a bottle of water and a pack of tissues, asked for a plastic bag, and found a trash can to sniff it, and then woke up after vomiting.
Not long after, it started raining outside. The last bus in has already been driven, so I can't bear to take a taxi and am ready to walk back to my residence.
I was so hungry that I bought another bag of cake. Suddenly I remembered my ex. She liked sweets the most. When I came home from get off work, I always brought her some.
Emotions suddenly surged into my heart. was at the most relaxed moment of the day and the weakest warning, tears suddenly rolled in my eyes. but I can't cry, it's too embarrassing.
keeps stuffing cake into his mouth, but the tears still haven't been held back, but luckily it doesn't fall.
When eating with tears in their eyes, they all saw sad scenes. The guy who rode an electric bike home in the rain stopped at the intersection and showed a taxi with a passenger.
Wait until the cake was finally finished, my mood was still very collapsed, but I had already controlled it a little.
Many lonely and helpless moments, The cruelty of life can knock him down at any time, but he never gives up hope for life. Still choose to have a good meal and take good care of yourself.
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As a math teacher, I often see some jokes about mathematics.
Friendship will go apart, love will fade, difficulties will make you suffer, and life will make you surrender... Only mathematics can’t be done, not knowing it, not knowing it.
In fact, life is much more difficult than mathematics. People are like the wind coming into the river and clouds, and love is like rain sticking to the ground. After graduation, break up, failing to start a business, unable to afford a house, and unable to survive in big cities... There are always moments that make people feel sad.
But after getting drunk or crying with your head covering, the reality may not improve. When you are depressed and depressed, maybe your competitors have already run ahead of you to take the lead.
Fortunately, people who can cry and eat can go on. Whenever you turn out the soft side and turn it back, its wall will become harder and harder.
The so-called maturity of adults is probably the soft side that has been turned over too many times. If you suffer a thousand serious crimes, you will not give up after practicing.
If you see an adult breaking up in front of you, don't rush to laugh at him. Don’t say he is fragile, don’t say he is pretentious, maybe he just encountered something that was so overwhelming that he couldn’t breathe.
Let him vent for a while, or sit down and accompany him. Tell him, you are really great in , and your efforts will definitely be seen.
We are all the same. We eat fast food box lunches delivered in the wind and rain. There are so many tears that we should shed, and we should take no detour. Since we have already stumbled and walked to the present, let's persevere together.
Emotions are like weather, sometimes cloudy and sometimes rainy. After crying, don’t forget to rush to the clear sky.
[Author Profile] The author is unknown and the most comforting writer, and is good at perceiving the warmth in ordinary life. The new book "I Like Myself in the Storm and Rain" is selling well. WeChat public account "Zhongquwuwen" (ID: zhongquwuwen)
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