Did you give up what you are doing because of a comment from someone else?
Do you escape or give up because you encounter difficulties in doing something?
Are you unable to achieve your goals or dreams because you often give up or escape?
I have this situation, I think you must have it, we have been procrastinating, and we have been worried that others will laugh at us and that we will not do well.
Last year, I entered the "reading and writing circle". For me who likes to "pretend to be B", this is undoubtedly a good opportunity. After all, most people know the importance of reading and writing, but there are quite a few people who can continue to read and write. It is said that each person in my country reads more than three books every year, and this data has been around for many years.
Although I have been studying for more than ten years, I have no interest or talent in reading and writing at all. I am not very good at studying in school, let alone writing, which is even more difficult.
It took several thousand yuan to enter the reading and writing circle, and I also had the energy to put some effort into reading and writing, so I just bite the bullet.
Reading and writing, persist in reading for a while or writing a few hundred words, and it is still possible to overcome it. In addition, there is encouragement from one-on-one tutor. But it is extremely painful to be able to read and write every day or week.
Two months after being exposed to reading and writing, many of my companions around me have given up and have given up many times. Sometimes I think about it, a 30-year-old has not really done something well. If I give up this time, what can I do in the future?
There is a sense of indifference in my heart, which can indeed make me persevere for a while, but it will still be very painful, especially when outputting.
After persisting for another month, the two "little people" in their minds were still fighting constantly. In the end, the "little people" who persisted have the upper hand, and the "little people" who gave up was defeated, so that they could persevere.
gives yourself a reason to persevere and make yourself full of vitality every day. In order to make yourself persist in reading and writing, I have read a point of view before. If you want to develop a good habit, and this habit is difficult to develop for a while, you can find something that is easier to achieve and connect it with. I chose to get up early and run.
started running early on November 4, 2021. Until today, except for windy, rainy or other special circumstances, early running has not been interrupted. It has to run for 4-5 days a week. From the beginning, it can only walk three kilometers, and now there is no problem running a half-marathon.
As I get up early and run, although reading is intermittent, I can say that I have persisted, but when I mention writing, I still don’t have the courage to keep updating in the self-media.
Although some articles have been updated on several self-media platforms in the middle, they are always stimulated by the people around them. When someone writes an article, how many likes it has, how many fans it has grown, how much profit it has earned, etc., they will quickly imitate others to write; to see how much money others make in writing business orders, and also follow the trend to write a few business orders... After these are so enthusiastic, they return to their previous state, and they do not have the courage to continue to update.
does not have the courage to continue to update, and over time, there is no courage to start.
does not have the courage to start, maybe it is because there are no fans, no likes, no reads... No, no, no, actually not. The real reason is that I cannot accept the "imperfect" self!
Faced with a brand new thing, no matter who you are, how glorious the experience or how high the status of the past, it is normal to be "shameful" or be ridiculed when you first do something, let alone make it perfect at once. It is simply a fantasy.
There was a child in the United States who was born on July 30, 1863 in the suburbs of Detroit. He was the eldest son of the family. His parents ran the farm and hoped that he could inherit the family business in the future, but he developed a huge interest in machinery.
has been fascinated by it since he was a child. When he first saw a car pulled by steam engine on the road, he deeply touched him. He firmly believed that the power of machinery is infinite and he dreamed of having a factory for manufacturing machinery in the future.
People only have dreams but not enough, the key is action.
17 years old, he left his hometown and started his dream pursuit alone. He worked in a large factory in Detroit, but after working for six days, he resigned because he thought that other old employees were too inefficient. The problem that the old employees solved in a few hours was solved in dozens of minutes.
Later, he worked in several machinery factories, but none of them were ideal. In this way, he returned to his hometown and inherited the family business, but he could not let go of his interests.
Dreams are good, but reality is cruel!
He embarked on the road to Detroit again. After the Durier brothers designed a gasoline-driven car, many people were eager to try it out, including him, who was obsessed with cars.
After many difficulties and attempts, he finally produced the first car in Detroit with the help of his friends and engineers. Although it was very strange in shape and extremely slow in speed. But it has begun anyway, no matter how bad it is.
Later, the famous Model T car was developed, creating one miracle after another.
He is the car king- Henry Ford .
accepts the "imperfect" self, no matter how bad you do, you must start, and no matter how bad you do, you must continue. Every beautiful thing comes from failure, weakness, and incompleteness.
"Imperfection is also a part of perfection", this concept must be deeply imprinted in the heart.
famous director Beverly Hills once said: "If you fail, you may be disappointed, but if you don't try, you are doomed to fail."
The best action strategy: "Be good first". No matter how bad you do now, you can have the best chances.
Make the best preparations, make the worst plans, and lower expectations, so it is easy to take the first step.
accepts the "imperfect" self and starts bravely, no matter what, I have already started.
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