1. No matter where you are, no matter what you do, always put yourself first.
2. Don’t expect everyone to like you. If someone likes you, someone will definitely hate you.
The ending that everyone wants to like is to be hated by everyone.
3. No one cares whether you think about other people’s feelings when you speak. What everyone cares about is whether what you say involves your own interests.
4. Don’t “slander yourself” in front of strangers. Your "self-deprecating." will make the other person subconsciously feel that you are a person who can accept vulgar jokes, and this kind of joke will slowly turn into bullying.
Remember that only when people respect themselves first can others respect you.
5. Reject all unreasonable requests. I am willing to help you, and it is natural not to help you.
What if the other party is angry? "That's his business, whoever has the emotions is responsible.
6. Remember, you can afford to offend 99% of the people around you, and those who you can't afford to offend have no time to pay attention to you.
7. Don't be familiar with people who are familiar with you. If you can be familiar with you, you can be familiar with others.
. People who are familiar with you have a big disadvantage, which is that they are poor, and generally speaking, those who often look like they look. People with many friends, the more they don’t know how to communicate with others.
8. Use your strengths, the more impressive your strengths are, the more others will be beautify your shortcomings into personality.
For example, Xiao Ming and Xiao Lin are both introverted. Xiao Ming was admitted to a key university in 985. Others will think that Xiao Ming is called down-to-earth and practical, and he is serious and easy to learn;
. Xiao Lin only gets into a junior college that is not a good student. Others will think that no wonder he didn’t do well in the exam and can’t even say anything. How can the exam be good?
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