1. Every moment, we can sense that we are "in" means meaning. Therefore, we must accept any current situation. Our sense of existence is not based on our outside, our existence itself is meaning. We realize that "being" is a state of "separation" from the noisy noise in our brain

1. Every moment, we can sense that we are "in", which is the meaning

Therefore, we must accept any current situation. Our sense of existence is not based on our outside, our existence itself is the meaning.

We realize that "in" is a state of "separation" from the noisy noise in our brains. The spiritual school calls Him “present.” Anyway, what it is called doesn't matter. He is a state of permanence that he is aware of; it is a bit like "stammering". No matter what kind of experience we are now, whether we are alone or with others; in a state of unity and peace, or in a state of pain of separation; no matter what we are doing, we have meaning, because we are the meaning itself, and we are aware that our "existence" is the meaning, and we do not need to look for any proof outside.

So we must truly accept our current situation; love ourselves completely and accept ourselves; no matter what we are, we all love ourselves completely.

2. We must bring love and enter all relationships

We must bring love and interact with people and things. We must bring love to the relationship of all things and interact with people with love.

We enter the relationship because of love, in this relationship, "I" is a gift. If someone suddenly enters our lives and must also come with gifts, then we must realize what the gift is behind it?

If we realize that we are in a state of anxiety, fear and demand, then we should not enter any relationship for the time being. Because any relationship we enter will only create problems for us.

So, we should not enter any relationship because of anxiety, fear, loneliness, and lack;

Or use buying and selling stocks as an example: Why do we almost make wrong transactions in the stock market? This leads to losses. The root cause is that before the relationship between us and the "trading" that occurs with the stock market, we are almost 100% anxious and fearful, or greedy. In fact, the essence of greed is fear.

So, when we face stock declines, we will mistakenly cut our losses because of fear of losses. When the stocks are rising wildly, we are reluctant to sell because of "greed", but instead rush in to buy stocks when the market is rising. Any trading relationship we have with the stock market under the premise of "fear and greed". It is destined to create huge problems in our lives.

Some people may say, I have bought and sold stocks with greed and fear, and have I made money? Then I don’t dare to congratulate you, but instead I want to advise you. You need to be more vigilant: because we will easily forget ourselves when we made money last time and think that this is the future “way to make money.” And I would think that the same will happen next time. When our cognition is paralyzed by the first "victory", I don't know that there is already a larger "sink pit" ahead, waiting for our arrival, that is, a "cemetery" that can bury all our investment assets. This is a bigger problem that creates for our life after entering the relationship with fear and greed.

3. We need to stay aware before entering any relationship

Having this "awareness" is very important for our lives.

For example, we want a sense of existence, meaning, what do we want to prove? Want a sense of security, want to gain external material needs, satisfy your vanity, and want to resolve your so-called loneliness, etc. There is no way to obtain it through external relationships. Because these have nothing to do with love, but only with desire, want, and fear.

That is to say, enter a relationship, whether it is connected to people or things; we must connect with love, enter into the relationship with others with gifts and love; rather than enter into the relationship with a desire for lack, fear or demand.

Entering a relationship, the only meaning is to give love, not ask for love; we are love, we don’t need to ask for love. Besides, because we can't ask for it, it's just that the more we ask for it, the more we want it, the more we want it, the more lonely we want it; if we ask for it, it can't really solve the problem of loneliness.

and other things are all things we need to be aware of, especially before entering a relationship, we need to remain aware. That is to do our best to let us enter into a relationship with love.

We have to do what we love and become the person we want to be.

So we have to think: What kind of person do I want to be? What do we want to do? What do we want to experience? We can find some things we can do now and do very much.

We need to think about what kind of person "I" want to be? Keep thinking about what kind of life I want to live? Constantly think, then truly put it into action, and become your ideal self.