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is ahead of you. You are nearly 40 years old. You must ignore the opinions of everyone around you in order to live a comfortable life and live out yourself. Maybe you can still embark on another spring of your career.
When we were young, we usually lived in the will of others.
The relatives, teachers, friends, and colleagues around us constantly use their consciousness to influence us.
This should be like this and that should be like that.
Live in the secular world, you have to listen, and you have to listen if you don’t listen.
There are many times when I have not even noticed it, I have adopted it, submitted, agreed, and obedient it.
We do not have the ability to identify, judge, and resist.
As time goes by, we slowly grow and become stronger.
has met more people and more things. At the beginning,
handles according to other people's words or the way we are used to, and
gradually discovered something wrong.
so began to reflect, and
went deeper little by little.
woke up one day and suddenly felt that things might not have to be like this.
Maybe we can change the way, and
maybe we can do better.
Why not try a new way?
So, we did it again.
This process is painful,
is long.
Sometimes we are right, sometimes others are right.
so we were confused and entangled.
Ask yourself when it's late at night.
How exactly does the world work?
has no answer.
at least there is no answer when you ask a question.
Because this seems to be a very complex question, no one can give a standard answer.
But it is gratifying that the moment you ask the question,
you are getting closer and closer to the answer.
So, in the years that come,
you keep asking yourself back.
You work in life and find your answer. Although the answer to
is complicated, it is becoming clearer and clearer.
When you almost understand the rules of the world running and
is not completely sure,
you asked another question.
Why do people live?
Why do I have to live?
What is the meaning of life? There is no standard answer to the question of
, which is so miserable.
is completely incompatible with the education we received since childhood.
, but there is no way. Since
has asked a question, you must want to know the answer.
So you started looking again. After many years, you found the answer. The answer to
is different from other people's.
But you believe it is this, this is your own answer, it is the answer you have found after spending a lot of time, experiencing a lot of things, and experiencing a lot of ups and downs.
You plan to follow this and live like this in the future.
At this time, you look back and see
Wow,
is no longer young,
is already middle-aged.
OK, it doesn’t matter if middle age is not a concern,
You will no longer care about other people’s opinions, comments from others, and remarks from others.
secular evaluation, the level of the position, the amount of income, the quality of life, the gossip of others,
You don’t care about it, and it won’t affect you.
You will only live your own way
.
It is said that
is called maturity.
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