The one I saw today is like the morning bell and evening drum. I remind you again:
"Everyone who regrets oneself afterwards and discusses others' mistakes afterwards are all superficial experiences. "--- Zeng Guofan
(All people who regret their own mistakes afterwards and discusses others' mistakes afterwards are manifestations of shallow experiences and short-sighted knowledge.)
Feng Tang 's summary is even more concise: "First, don't regret what you did wrong; second, don't discuss what others did wrong." There is another sentence that is even more amazing: "When you succeed, you always look forward than you look back."
pair, the focus is, in the present and in the future.
has passed, and even if you beat me to death, I can't change what happened in the past. It only increases sadness and regret. The end of the matter, you should wake yourself up before and after: Don’t worry too much about doing well or badly, right or wrong, just stride forward; you should also be alert to a tendency that when you are not satisfied with yourself, you will directly or indirectly point out or point out others’ badly or imply that it is wrong. This is the operation of dark energy and dark matter, be careful of evil thoughts and control the mouth of others.
OK, go forward. Be your own. Don't talk about others.
(Hold on! Peck at the mouth and immediately reduce the dimensionality, you become the person you hate)
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