In January this year, I had a whim and made a plan for interviews. The specific content of the plan is: make an appointment with 10 friends who have not met for a long time (the time interval of not meeting is greater than 6 months). There is no limit on the form, no limit on the

In January this year, I had a whim and made a plan for interviews. The specific content of the

plan is: Make an appointment with 10 friends who have not met for a long time (the time interval of not meeting is greater than 6 months). There is no limit on the form, no limit on the place, no limit on the time, but only one thing is to do - chat.

I always believe that everyone is their own mirror. You can see yourself clearly from others. You can not only see your own goodness, but also find your own shortcomings, and learn what you don’t have from others. Meeting and chatting is the most direct way to connect.

dangdangdangdang~The third friend is here!

33The third interview character

Generation name: 3Apricot

Home to last meet: Home 4hm hm6Home 4hm

This meeting time: May 22, 2022

Conversation time: 1.5 hours

3 When I saw Xingzi again, I learned that she had quit naked for 3 months.

She is my friend who has been playing with me since childhood. We grew up in the same yard. When we were young, we had a strong relationship and visited each other every day. We were inseparable from each other. However, as the academic pressure increases, the contacts and contacts gradually decrease. Now meeting again is due to an unexpected dinner.

It took a long time to see us. We were still a little restrained at the dinner table. The adults were also on the table. When we met, we simply said hello. We were just talking about the taste of the dishes, what were delicious and what were not delicious, etc. We maintain a subtle tacit understanding and a certain distance between us, and we do not seem so familiar or so distant.

After dinner, we chose to go home together. The adults continued to eat and drink. We just walked away and were too lazy to chat with the adults in the second half.

left the small restaurant, we looked at each other and exhaled a long breath. I started chatting while standing by the roadside, and the atmosphere suddenly returned to my childhood.

"I have resigned for almost three months." suddenly said, turning the direction of the chat, and the air seemed to have been frozen for a moment.

I read it from her expression. She was not worried about it, but instead was free and free.

"You didn't see it. After I said that I had left that day, the boss didn't dare to scold me as usual. I was about to leave, but he still gave me something that I shouldn't be responsible for. I slapped the table and rushed directly to the office, 'reaching' with the boss. The whole office was so quiet, and the boss looked at me and couldn't speak.

Of course, of course I didn’t do that, and he didn’t do anything to me. Alas, I guess we were usually squeezed too hard by him, and he didn’t expect me to resist. ”

While she was telling, I was thinking about it. This is a complete rectification of workplace cases, which is really satisfying!

Then, she talked to me about her unhappiness in this job. The long-term workload of exceeded the standard, the company's atmosphere was incomplete, and overtime was severe. In addition, the leadership PUA led to a 20 kilogram gain in the work this year. Her physical condition was not as good as before, and her mental pressure was particularly great. is embodied, and going to work every day is like being sentenced.

This also let me know that Her resignation was not an impulsive and reckless move, but a life-saving choice that he had to save his life.

I asked her if she had found a new job after resigning. She said:

"Of course I found it. I have also been to several interviews, but none of them are very satisfied. I originally resigned to relieve my anxiety, but the anxiety was still not relieved because of the job search.

Later I reconciled with myself, so I simply lay down for a while, rested and set off. "

During this period when she was not working, she had no source of income and lived a simple and low-quality life. She said that she actually didn't do anything at home every day and didn't want to be really relaxed and comfortable, so she just managed her three meals a day. She didn't have much to worry about. She slept until what time she wanted to sleep. She was happy every day like a god~

If you ask me now, "Will you really be happy if you don't work?"

I got from her The answer I saw was: "I'm sure happy! You'll know if you try~"

at the end:

In fact, I envy her, she dares to be so at will, dares to face prejudice, dares to challenge the routine, and do what she wants to do.

But if I were allowed to choose between my current lifestyle and her lifestyle, I would still choose my own. In my opinion, it is very good not to go to work, but if you can't guarantee your basic life and cannot deal with emergencies (such as being sick), the cost of not going to work is too high.

I can't put myself in an unknown adventure.

However, everyone has their own choice. Maybe not the best, but it must be the optimal solution in our current subconscious.

The last, whether it is working or not working, no matter what choice you make, don’t regret it.