#I'm creating the second issue of Toutiao# Due to the sudden outbreak of the epidemic, I received a notice of three days of encirclement too suddenly, and some people complained and anxious in the group. It reminds me of a short story I once saw: One day, a father and son went fo

Due to the sudden outbreak, the notification of the three-day encirclement was too sudden, and some people complained and anxious in the group.

reminded me of a little story I once saw:

One day, a father and son went for a walk by the river and returned home, sat on the sofa in the living room and chatted together.

chat..., the son told his father that he was very unhappy about some things recently, and he felt anxious.

The father asked his son to bring a glass full of water, and then threw a stone picked up from the river, and the water immediately overflowed.

The father said to his son: "Whether the anxiety or pain in life is like this stone.

And your heart is like this glass, and the water filled is the pain accumulated by your anxiety.

If your heart is filled with water, a small trouble will be thrown in, it will overflow, so you feel anxious and painful."

"How about you not feel anxious and painful?" The son asked anxiously.

The father asked his son to get another bucket, pour the water from the glass into the bucket, and then throw the stone in.

father continued: "If the same stone is thrown in, the water will not overflow.

Although pain and troubles will still arise, it will not have much impact on you, because the barrel is deep and big.

If you can magnify your heart, Things are small.

As long as your heart is as broad as the sea, you can tolerate everything good and bad.

Only by knowing how to let go of things that you can do without doing, and take indifferent knots that cannot be untied in your heart.

Then there is nothing, you can influence your emotions.

no emotions, There is no so-called anxiety and pain. "

There is a sentence in "Disclaimer" that is particularly open-minded:

"When you don't care about anything, your life is the real beginning. If you can do nothing, you are called letting things go. If your heart doesn't care, you are called to be content with everything."

A big dream in the world, you will be careless and have no anxiety or worries.

are either sad, happy, or glitzy, or gathering, separation, or separation, or gain or loss, all are real life.

Storm and rain, sorrow and joy will be saved.

Saving oneself is a kind of wisdom, and sacrificing one's heart is a kind of practice.

3 People's lives, no matter rich or poor, they suffer, and they cannot escape the impermanence of life.

Things are unpredictable. If you suffer from anxiety, no one will help you in the end.

Because everything in the world has its own operating rules, you and I cannot change it.

Only by making one's heart stronger and awakening the wisdom of life is the choice of the wise.

All the world is suffering, and you can only save yourself.

and cultivating the mind is also the only way for us to save ourselves.

In this volatile and erratic situation, accept everything, cherish your eyes, raise awareness, and live every day with your heart.

Let the past follow the wind, forget what should be forgotten, let what should be released, let everything go, let it go, let it go, calm and calm.

Finally, please like it, I hope you and I will not read the past, not fear the future, and live up to the present.

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Author introduction:

I am Ziqiao, I wake up at five o'clock every day, and I like to do things like "reading and writing", "exercise", "psychology", and "home beautification".

This number published a dry article: "Emotion", "Psychology", "Review and Summary", "Enhance Knowledge", "Home Beautification"

Vision: Be your own sun, illuminate others with warm light.

Golden sentences in life: Self-discipline will be hard for a while, laziness will be hard for a lifetime! The more self-discipline you are, the more free you are. If you persist, it will lead to transformation.