2022.10.9 Xiaoyu
In the morning, he called his second son to get up, and he got up and calmed down:
"Mom, why is it dawn? I feel like I have only slept for a few seconds."
I am really envious. This is the feeling that only deep sleep can have such a good sleep. Only this heartless little person can have such a good sleep.
Actually, I have had this feeling before, but it has been a very distant thing, and it was a rare accident several times. When I was young, I was ignorant and let myself make up some strange things in my mind. I was like the second child who fell asleep when he was tired during the day. When I woke up, it was too few at dawn.
I can’t sleep well when I live in high school. Although things are similar every day, there will always be roommates who will lead to one topic after another, and then start endless "bedroom talks". Many times I don’t know when it ends, and I fall asleep in a daze. As if half of the words were spoken, the other half was brought into my dream.
The years when children really sleep deep are the first two years of their birth. They are particularly able to sleep, but unfortunately they are always awakened by their children. The children are hungry, pee, and pull... The children fall out of the bed, kick you, talk in their sleep... Sometimes they are half-squinted and half-awake and half-sleeping.
When the children are grown up, they no longer have to take turns to enjoy their "360-degree" punches and kicks in bed every night, but they start to greed for the hard-earned late-night free time. They always want to find themselves in that short time. After accidentally sleeping liver fire , they come up and can only sleep lightly all night.
After waking up, the state of the state is not much better than insomnia. The eyes are dry and the neck is sore and weak. The day is already more tired than "returning to the middle of the night". I take a shower or take a bath and feel refreshed for a while. I quickly devote myself to my life and work. However, it is absolutely difficult to concentrate for more than an hour and feel sleepy, especially in an environment with a relatively relaxed and comfortable working environment.
At this time, I was particularly envious of the "heartless" type of second child. This type of person is innocent and worry-free. He will do his best to eat, drink, and have fun. He will eat, sleep when he should eat, and he will sleep when he should. He is very good at making life comfortable. The second brother's most orderly and organized good habit is the only thing I don't need to supervise. He will prepare the clothes he wears the next day before going to bed, then lay the quilt, straighten the pillow, and say:
"Mom, I'm going to sleep."
Then he went to bed. It didn't affect the lights to turn off, and it didn't affect the others' talks and chats. The brother cleaned up all the time and had no effect. He couldn't help but sigh that he was really "genius" in sleeping, and no one could learn O(∩_∩)O~!
heartless, but relying too much on the environment is really a natural talent. In the past, I thought that such a child would fly far away a little older, and would not be particularly family-oriented. Now I think it is also very good. When we raise a child, isn’t the biggest wish of hoping that he can live his own life well and have a broad mind and no worries?
"heartless" children are actually not really worry-free, but they are good at resolving the discomfort in life. When they are disliked and scolded, criticized for doing wrong things, or frustrated in learning knowledge and skills, bad emotions are easily resolved or transferred by them.
laughed happily and concealed it, and then became lively again...
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