Have you noticed that those people in life who really feel that they are tired actually happen to be people who want to take care of everything and can’t let go of anything.
They may feel that reality is so overwhelming, and they may think that it is the high pressure of mortgages, car loans and work that makes them exhausted and miserable.
But they never thought that the more they want and the more complicated they think, the harder they feel, and the harder they feel, the harder they live, the harder they feel.
The shortcut to success for people often starts with choosing simple.
1: Less means more, more means less
Obviously, if you make more money, you will naturally have less time to your own.
Once upon a time, we thought that the more we got, the happier we felt, but what we never thought was that when we strive hard to get and work hard, we will feel more and more tired and anxious.
There is a friend around you who tells everyone that your life goal is to live in a house as bigger as possible and the newer the clothes, the better.
Then, in order to satisfy these material desires, she changed her bags one after another, and her new clothes were piled up with the closet, but she still felt unsatisfied.
I saw her again recently and found that she has changed a lot. After chatting for a while, I realized that because of the bad economy this year, I have reached a point where I can’t make ends meet, and I will never dare to spend money like before.
Finally, she said that people can only truly understand it in the trough period. In fact, a person’s material desires are reduced, which is not a good thing. Anyway, she thinks that such a simple and unpretentious lifestyle seems to make people feel more relaxed.
Indeed, everyone may like to buy when they were young, and then enjoy eating.
But as time goes by and after the mind matures, I feel that such a life is like pushing myself into a bottomless pit. I don’t know when it will be, and it is even very likely that it will become worse.
We are obviously getting more and more, but we feel that we are becoming less and less satisfied.
Less means more, more means less, just as Lin Qingxuan said: "If you want to get the joy of life, you must subtract life."
subtract life, start with simplicity, abandon the insatiable material desires in the world, refuse to be bound by material things, fight for what you need, and throw away what you don't need.
like this, return to the simple beginning and reduce the burden on the soul.
2: Live a simple life, live a simple and happy life
Life is originally simple and pure, but many people cannot control themselves from the temptation of the bustle and noisy, nor can they refuse all kinds of external interference, so that they become with the flow and pursue material enjoyment.
So, when you get a brief happiness and enjoy the things that can satisfy yourself without spending money, you gradually forget your business.
However, what they don’t know is that the more a person likes to enjoy low-level happiness, the more likely he is to fall into crisis.
Because truly sober and rational people will not easily be confused by so-called external and unnutritious things.
More times, they know how to abandon redundant information, truly understand the truth, see through the essence of things, live out wisdom, and make every day easy.
Living a simple life is like focusing and energy on your own mind, staying away from impetuous and complex circles, low-end consumption, avoiding some meaningless social interactions, and buying less valuable items, cosmetics, clothing, etc.
In this way, you will not only not feel that you are in pain, but instead feel that your mind becomes more and more relaxed and comfortable.
Once a person's heart becomes abundant, the stronger his or her expectation for life and the more accurate he or she will have in his or her grasp of the present.
Such a real and wise life can help you avoid a numb life, and also free the mind from material constraints and enjoy the freedom and pleasure in the mind.
3: Life is simpler, and happiness comes a little bit more
The simpler you live, the more you can often feel that life is down-to-earth, comfortable and peaceful.
As the book "Subtraction" says:
"Carrangement of physical space can make you closer to your own psychological space."
In fact, the same is true. The more a person maintains a calm attitude towards external matter and things, the more he can focus on spiritual growth.
has brought life to minimalist mode, and has a simple attitude of awe for life, loosen the mind and reduce the burden on yourself.
is like this, enjoy the present comfortably, see the future clearly, and let a happy life come in a moment.
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