Do you have any relatives and friends who always dislike you?
No matter how you change, they can tell right from wrong in their eyes.
When meeting, he was not speculative and he choked you indifferently.
is sarcastic behind his back, and he is so sorry for you when he is looking for trouble.
In her mouth, you will always be negative.
Even if you and her don’t meet a few times at all.
But in her impression, you will never be the one who can't stand on the table.
It seems that such people will appear in everyone's life.
grasps a dark history of childhood and talks about it for more than ten years.
It seems that there is nothing big in their lives, and they only know that they remember the bad side of others.
In my limited memory, there is a very strange old man.
I met this old man before I could remember it.
was young at that time and didn't say hello to him.
The words of this strange uncle who suddenly appeared were not so polite.
Just such a small thing, I offended this old man.
In the next few years, this old man spared no effort to make fun of me everywhere.
said I was rude and uneducated, and said that my parents would not educate their children.
No matter what occasion, this old man will re-report this old past whenever he sees me.
is spicy and full of disdain.
Even though there were several years in between our family who had visited this old man with gifts.
and sincerely apologized when he mentioned this past.
But whenever we meet again, he will help me recall my childhood regardless of the occasion.
's tone as he spoke is not a joke at all.
clearly means to embarrass me in front of everyone, so as to regain the face of his elders.
. He never mentioned our visits over the years.
Under his hard promotion, I am just an uneducated child in the eyes of their generation.
Even if I don’t remember these past events, I learned them from my parents.
I had no choice but to ignore him when I couldn't shut up.
Anyway, the image has been destroyed, and there is no possibility of remediation.
Instead of visiting someone who smears you every day with gifts every year, it is better to go and see the elders who are truly worthy of respect.
After graduation, I have been staying in Jiangcheng.
is thousands of miles away from my hometown, and life is neither good nor bad.
will only go home for a few days every year during the New Year.
Because I don’t usually go around with my relatives and friends, I don’t have any common topics.
gathered together, and they were also talking about some joyful things.
I thought the sky was high and the emperor was far away, and I would not interfere with some people.
But if you really meet that, you can still feel full of malice.
from head to toe, I basically have to comment on you.
and these comments are mostly nothing good.
When I met, my image became a poor person working outside.
says I am not mature enough and have an alternative mind.
doesn't want to get married and have children, and he still runs to such a faraway place to make a fuss.
and repeatedly advised my parents not to travel far away, and returning to their hometown to take the exam is the best way out.
I like jobs, they say that is a future-proof thing.
You are in danger and you may lose your job tomorrow.
The life I want, they say it is deviant.
is unrealistic and is simply a dream.
inquired about my life indirectly.
again sarcastically and desperately as I spoke.
I don’t know when it started, but a generation gap has become the original sin.
As long as you don’t speak for something and have different opinions, you will be ridiculed by the masses.
is not a civil servant, and not getting married and having children is a broken life.
even made up all kinds of unpleasant versions, leaving you speechless.
I thought these words were only aimed at me.
has been heard for a long time and found that everyone is being preached.
No matter which way of life, someone stands up to oppose it.
Given that there are too many noisy sounds, they are full of negative energy.
can only listen selectively in the end, and ignore some "teachings" if necessary.
In the early years, I also tried to convince those who did not recognize themselves.
wants to block the crowd through language and actions.
later found that the results were minimal, and there were always people who were full of malicious intentions without asking the reason.
later, I opened it.
Others can’t stand you, and sometimes there is really no need to self-examination.
Their vision and discussion are the biggest stumbling blocks that hinder your progress.
If everyone can understand you, then how ordinary you will live.
Instead of taking care of people who are not related, it is better to spend time to please yourself.
People’s lives are so short, what others think is nothing.
Make your own decisions in your own life, do not blindly follow, and do not get lost.