The world, everyone, everyone thinks of sucking the clouds and fog and meeting the breeze.
But most people can only fantasize about a happy life in this scene of life, but gradually grow old in the unsatisfactory situation of reality.
Life will give us a list, and everything you want and don’t want is stuffed in.
This is not scary. What I am afraid of is that under the accumulation of sadness and grievances, there are more and more stories yesterday, but there are fewer and fewer hopes tomorrow.
Of course, although our lives are full of regrets, trial and error is the power that everyone has.
A failure once does not mean that you are out. On the contrary, being able to walk your own path in adversity and in the crack of despair is a more powerful maturity.
Many people have wasted half of their lives before they understand a truth: don’t eat idle food, don’t look at the cold face, don’t hide your own clumsiness, and don’t expose others’ shortcomings.
Those who face difficulties and those unforgettable are not for others, but for drawing a brilliant stroke of your own life, and for allowing yourself to have the ability to live openly and not be defeated.
Don’t eat idle food, don’t look at the cold face
It’s said that money is like dirt, but in the rest of your life, no one can do without money. Money is indispensable in food, clothing, housing and transportation.
People's hearts are easy to change. No matter what promise the other party makes you, relying on your own abilities to live a stable life is the most down-to-earth and confident.
Some people are from a good family background and are born with a golden spoon in their mouths. But no matter what age or family background, no matter how beautiful you are or how beautiful you are, you still have the ability to make money on your own, and you are the toughest.
Some women believe what men say when they are in love, but they never expect that the term of love will be so short, so "I raise you" becomes a living place like "I raise you";
Some children, under the protection of their parents, do not have the ability to survive and are unwilling to work hard, but no matter how willing your parents are to take care of you and are levied by your parents, their parents will eventually get old one day. If it is a family with many children, the cold eyes of other brothers and sisters are not easy to bear...
For life and love, we must all have our own bottom line. Kindness is not a concession without bottom line, and love is not just a one-sided pursuit.
If the other party has no reciprocity with your efforts and efforts, and always has a cold look on his face, then let it go out in time.
No one in this world is nobler than anyone else, and no one is better than anyone else. Find those relationships that care about each other. You deserve better people to love, love, love, cherish.
Do not hide one's own clumsiness, do not expose others' shortcomings
Many people habitually regard their shortcomings as fatal poison, but forget that people with advantages and disadvantages are flesh and blood and real.
Before we have the ability to love others, the first thing we must learn is to love ourselves and accept ourselves.
hides your shortcomings, just like avoiding doctors. Sooner or later, it will explode and it will not be hidden. It’s better to admit it calmly and face it positively.
Those who try to hide their own life must be very tired. In this depressing atmosphere, the people around you will definitely feel the pressure.
Falseness can never replace the truth. It is easy to backfire on your own shortcomings and try to show your perfect self in front of others, making others feel that you are hypocritical and artificial.
is worse than being honest. Of course, at the same time, you can also show your own advantages in front of others. This not only allows you to be targeted in getting along with each other, but also better avoid shortcomings and take advantage of advantages.
Of course, some people are indeed not ready to fully reveal themselves. Then give him some time and yourself some time.
Don’t deliberately expose other people’s shortcomings or poke others’ scars. When your relationship is in place, he will naturally tell you. All you have to do during this period is to keep your mouth calm.
When blaming others, the first thing you need to do is to examine yourself.Don’t speak out for the sake of being straightforward or wanting to get an advantage in a quarrel. This will bring the relationship between the two people to a low point and lower your own level.
Being a human being is like the sentence of Guiguzi : "Don't be jealous of his strengths. If you are jealous of his strengths, you will be short. Don't protect your weaknesses. If you are not long."
Mr. Lu Xun is like this in " Just Collection of " Said:
"A man downstairs was dying of illness. The next house was singing a phonograph, and the opposite was having a child. There were two people laughing wildly, and there were playing cards. There were women crying on the boat in the river and her dead mother. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same. I just think they are noisy."
In life, the important thing is to be yourself, have good character, and have the ability to be independent. Looking forward to relying on others to walk, it won’t last long.
There is no empathy in this world, and everyone lives in their own joys and sorrows. Relying on yourself may be a little harder or tired, but your heart is at ease; building a good character may be a little harder or painful, but your waist is straight.
Maybe you will be confused in life, but only by taking things on your own can you become more and more responsible. Even if others are willing to pull you, they will not help you for the rest of your life.
Rely on oneself to grow slowly, slowly clear interpersonal relationships, cultivate one's character, and be as close to the sun as the grass in the cracks of the rocks.
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The world is so big, thank you, you can see me!
[Written|Weiwei'an: The pen has warmth and speaks for emotion. An atypical writer who loves words invites you to perceive life together]
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