Wilde said:
When a person is young, he will despise money and think that it is difficult to be elegant with the smell of money. However, as he grows older, he will understand the importance of money more and more.
When you cannot give your loved one a happy life, when the child urgently needs tuition to go to school, and when the family is sick and hospitalized, a person will feel a deep sense of powerlessness.
Things are difficult, some people are extremely poor, deeply trapped in the quagmire of lack of money, and want to climb out quickly.
The more urgent it is, it is difficult to accumulate wealth quickly, and it is even more difficult and desperate.
anxious and doubtful, all kinds of negative emotions come to your face, unable to find the direction, and even seeking medical treatment in a hurry, heading on the wrong path.
lack of money covers our eyes, stop the confused pace, and don’t do the following three things.
Don’t worry about it unnecessary
psychologist Seidhill Mulenarson of Harvard University is a major scholar studying the impact of poverty on cognition. He said:
His research shows that a decrease in brain capacity will lead to a significant decrease in intelligence.
There is a netizen in Zhihu whose experience is very similar:
Five years ago, he was glorious and was the boss of a considerable factory with a wealth of tens of millions, with hundreds of employees, luxury cars and mansions, which is enviable.
However, after a storm, he fell into a huge debt crisis. Although the situation was bad, he was confident that he could survive the crisis.
But the huge debt made him breathless. Every day he was worried and couldn't sleep at night. Slowly, he was unable to think about business matters and began to give up on himself.
When a person starts to internally consume, his attention cannot be focused on the problem itself.
It is not scary to be short of money, what is scary is "heartlessness".
Excessive worry consumes brain power, intelligence, and even a positive heart, which is not advisable.
Don’t be meaningless social
8 Chang'an wrote this sentence:
The more you are, the more you want to prove yourself.
Calling friends, dreaming of making a name for themselves in drunkenness, and money comes all over the world.
But there are almost no one who really helps you except for friends with wine and meat.
Most of the circles at that time were people with the same experience, and socialization was almost equivalent to invalid.
Meanless socialization will only delay valuable time, cannot provide useful knowledge, cannot give effective suggestions, and cannot support sufficient funds.
The person who can really help is himself.
Schiller said:
Let go of unnecessary social interaction, settle yourself, and wait for the accumulation of strength.
Put down the unnecessary expectations
There is a scene in the movie "The World of Heaven":
Racing driver Zhang Chi lost his qualification for a race because of an accident and was burdened with huge debts. In order to make a comeback, he placed his expectations on his former friends and wanted to find his former friends to borrow money.
But after the phone was connected, he said without mockingly: "I know so many big guys, why do they all go on vacation abroad as soon as they call? "
Zhang Chi actually understands that no one will sponsor him, and he should not have expectations.
Putting expectations in impossible help is an error in itself.
When a person is in the abyss, it is a blessing that others don’t step on. Don’t expect someone to lend a helping hand, just save yourself.
Those who save themselves will save themselves, those who help themselves will help, and those who give up will abandon themselves will abandon them.
Only by saving yourself can you save yourself. Don’t put your expectations on others. This is the most terrifying idea.
Put down your burden and move forward with your head hiding
Su Shi There are many disasters in his life. He once had to farm himself to make a living to fill his stomach, and for this reason he was named "Mr. Dongpo".
But he did not fall into self-pity because of this, nor did he put his hope on others, he studied carefully, was optimistic and became famous for his generation.
When a person is short of money, he should also learn from Su Shi, let go of his worries, not do unnecessary social interactions, not put his hopes on others, and work hard to save himself in order to achieve success.
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