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Be a person who is not easy to bully, just like a rose with thorns, its "thorns" are to protect yourself.
001. The mother-in-law who is generous in borrowing money
A friend said that her mother-in-law is a kind and generous person, even if her pocket is not rich.
If someone has difficulties, please speak to her and she can help if she can.
There is an aunt in the village who wants to get married. She is anxious because she is not enough to hold a banquet, so she asks her mother-in-law to borrow money.
It happened that during that time, her mother-in-law's child sent her money and borrowed the money without saying a word. The villagers in the country can help a little. I borrowed
money and held the banquet. In the end, I didn’t call her mother-in-law when I held the banquet, so that my heart with a hot pillow slowly became cold.
002. A classmate who has been a good person for a long time has seen such a video online. There is a girl working hard in her university dormitory, cleaning and often helping with meals. Her roommates are busy at any time.
roommate took these efforts for granted. Once she didn't help because of her busy homework, but her roommate said she was stingy and didn't call her good things if she had good things.
She thought that her goodness could bring friendship, but she never wanted to be a good old person who helped unconditionally. Not only did she not get gratitude, she was also complained in the end.
Later she changed herself and did not please unnecessary people, and focused on being herself.
003. I didn’t order spicy dishes
We had something to go to Nanjing yesterday and it was very tiring to go back and forth for a day.
is late and too lazy to cook, so the whole family is eating outside.
ordered sweet and sour tenderloin, a shredded potato that was not spicy, because considering that the two babies don’t eat chili peppers, the ones who ordered spicy were afraid that they would be hungry.
Originally, the third dish wanted to order a spicy dish, but Mr. Ye ordered fish head tofu soup. There are enough dishes for
, and we two adults and brothers can’t eat much.
But I don’t like spicy food, so I still want to order another spicy food and stir-fried screws.
Later, my brother was a little more fussy and asked me to hold it all the way, but I needed two hands to eat screws and covered with peppers, so I didn’t order it.
has no spicy taste and is not very interested. At this time, Mr. Ye said, "Don't eat chili peppers at home, and order spicy food when you go outside."
The speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. I usually don’t add chili peppers to cook at home, but it’s not because the three of them don’t eat chili peppers. Now ordering spicy ones is mine.
He said that it was not the dish I ordered first, but I didn’t order spicy.
Yes, I asked me to order first. I can't come up as soon as I came up. Just like before, the boss, I'll give you a chopped pepper fish head, pickled cabbage fish, fried large intestine, and shredded potatoes... Finally, I will tell the boss to add more chili.
I am satisfied myself, but it doesn’t make a lot of sense. I can’t just pretend to be myself, and they are there to consider the overall situation.
I'm afraid he forgot that in those years we met me, I was so excited every day.
Later, I got married and became pregnant. I hugged two for three years. During pregnancy and breastfeeding, I couldn’t help but avoid eating, for the sake of the baby.
is also light now, just wanting that every dish can be eaten by the children, rather than eating it alone.
Through the small matter of eating chili, I knew that I could not accommodate others and felt wronged.
Sometimes, I become a forgotten joke, as if things are already like this.
I was busy all day yesterday and tired all day. Everyone was in a mood and got up. After the matter was over, it was over.
encounters some things, bringing some thoughts, and then making changes. Just like I am still the same spicy and unpleasant person, I will order the chopped pepper fish head that I like next time, and then order something suitable for my baby.
is like after experiencing suffering, not to thank the suffering, but to thank the new self after experiencing suffering.
Don’t try to change others, you can only change yourself.
Last:
There are always unhappy or unhappy things in life. I treat it as the material for writing, and use it locally, which is rich and colorful. After writing, I will turn it over, don’t hold on and don’t be bothered.
Just be kind, but don’t lose yourself, let yourself be angular and difficult to bully, and don’t be a little transparent.
If you want to make it, make a rose with thorns!
I want to say it every day:
has something you want to do, act immediately, don’t set limits for yourself, it won’t start too late.
Remember to follow and like after reading it. Promise me, you must also get better on the road to getting older! Never give up your growth at any time!
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Author: Not too late to start 67, official account: Not too late to start, meaning that what you want to do is not too late to start. Most of the articles are the perception of ordinary life, sublimating to personal growth, loving to write, loving to read, loving to share and loving you.
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