Time comes to us, and we will finally let go. Living healthy, living peacefully, smiling happily, and being busy properly is great. The purpose of reading
is not to achieve great success; but to give you an inner strength when you are beaten back to your original state by life and fall into a quagmire and suffer setbacks.
1, About setbacks
Almost everyone expects to be smooth sailing. Many people say: On the way forward, even if there are no singing and dancing or blooming flowers, it is best to have no wind and rain or setbacks. But how is this possible?
Setbacks and success are like the two ends of a pendulum, and no one can do without the other. In the journey of life, there are joys of success and tests of failure. In the face of setbacks, some people are at a loss, and even give up their lives easily in order to avoid difficulties and setbacks. Some people face the challenges of life, are indomitable and move forward bravely.
2. About life
Life is changeable, or sweetness is greater than bitterness, or bitterness is greater than sweetness, such a life is rich and colorful. Maybe life is not as smooth as we imagined, which will disappoint us, but we still have to learn to feel life!
Life is like a silent book, and everyone will have their own reading materials. Everyone has to accept the troubles lost in life. There have never been lucky people in this world. They just put in more efforts than ordinary people that others don’t know.
3. About growth
Some people say that Growth is the gap between your subjective world encountering an objective world. If you fall in, it is called setback, and you climb out, it is called growth!
The process of growing up is to break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly, struggling to get rid of all the youth and ugliness, shaking its light and beautiful wings in the sun, shining, slightly, and trembling happily.
4. About gains and losses
There will be gains and losses in the long life. I couldn't help but feel proud of getting what I loved, and I couldn't help but feel a little sad when I failed to get it. The sorrows and joys of gains and losses are all in themselves: optimistic, open-minded, determined and seeking. Even if the country is broken like Goujian , there will be one day when the country is defeated and the Wu is defeated and the southeast will be dominated by one day; pessimistic and listless give up retreat, and are as strong as a king, but they will only commit suicide by committing suicide by the river!
"How can you defeat the sky if you can't defeat the heart of an inch?" Perhaps, the sorrow and joy of gains and losses are only between the ups and downs: the key depends on your own mentality.
5. Regarding the treatment of life
Hong Zicheng said: " One step is to make a move forward, and regression means progress; treating others with a little bit of blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest. " Showing the speed of speech may not necessarily gain the upper hand; competing for a temporary surface glory may not necessarily win everything. Those who smile and lower their heads are smart people!
Finally, confusion is the norm in life. Don’t be afraid of confusion. The road of life is long. survives a few spring, summer, autumn and winter that no one knows, and everything will go in the direction you want!