1. The best way to have a good mood is to "do your business". If you make real efforts to your ideals all day long: learn the prescribed words, read the must-read books, finish the work, write the manuscript, sign the contract, and do not be lazy in training... Then when you encounter a taxi driver with a bad attitude, a car-watching aunt who charges more money, and an unscrupulous young man who queues up to get stuffed... you will basically laugh it off. Only when you have a fulfilled heart can you be confident and happy.
2. Some things are contrary to your wishes, have nothing to do with your interests, and are contrary to your strengths, but you still have to do it. This is reality. When some situations cannot be changed, you might as well adapt to them first and accumulate experience and strength. Over time, the opportunities that belong to you will come inadvertently. Life is not smooth all the way. If you fall, you can cry, but you must stand up. Tears can win sympathy and make you more vulnerable.
3. There is always a certain road where you can only walk alone; there are always many things that you need to bear alone. Don’t be afraid of loneliness. It can help you draw a clear and turbidity in your heart, and it is a fate that you cannot refuse; don’t avoid difficulties, don’t let the dust of the cold world freeze your smile, and slow down your steps. The longer you walk, the older you get, the weaker you are. If you can't forget yesterday, it is the shadow that binds you; if you yearn for tomorrow, you can describe it.
4. For a person who suddenly gets angry with you, you don’t know how many times he has endured you in his heart; for a person who looks resolute and decisive, you don’t know how many times he has made up his mind to truly not look back; for a person who shines like faith, you don’t know the price and effort he has paid behind him, making him look effortless. Don’t blame them for being too cold, don’t envy them for being decisive, don’t say that they don’t give, it’s just that you don’t know.
5. Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no Pure Land, it is better to be quiet. Since you haven't gotten your wish, it's better to be relieved. When you return to inner peace, no longer care about gains and losses, no longer picky about others, you will live in perfection, and the present is where you return. A person’s sense of happiness is given by oneself, and inner satisfaction means perfection; if he is not satisfied in his heart, it is difficult to obtain true happiness. The so-called perfection is not the absence of suffering and happiness, but the joy and joy are followed by joy and sorrow and joy are followed by fate.
6. If everyone really wants to become strong, they have to spend a period of no help or support. All things are supported by oneself, and only you know all emotions and thoughts. But as long as you grit your teeth and hold on, everything will be different. No matter who you are, no matter what you are experiencing, hold on, and you will definitely see your strongest self. People live not by tears, but by sweat!
7. Life is rich because of love; warm because of love; happy because of simplicity; beautiful because of kindness; fragrant because of tranquility; quiet because of tranquility; romantic because of poetry; warm because of touch; tolerant because of understanding; vivid because of encounter; cherish each other because of knowing each other; gather and disperse because of fate; separate because of impermanence, cherish because of miss; possess because of giving up; relax because of forgetting; wise because of choice and gift; peaceful because of no regrets; successful because of persistence.
8. Life is a choice and a kind of giving up. People who can choose freely are happy, and people who can give up moderately are free and easy. Unfortunately, sometimes our choices have no result and we can only leave sadly; sometimes our giving up is forced to turn around with tears in our eyes, and still look back frequently after walking away. Therefore, some past, about happiness or pain, can only be buried deep in the heart; some hopes, about the present or the future, can only be slowly forgotten.
9. Life is impermanent, the most important thing is not where you are, but where you are heading. You cannot decide the length of your life, but you can control its width; you cannot control the weather, but you can change your mood; you cannot change your appearance, but you can show a smile; you cannot control others, but you can control yourself; you cannot predict tomorrow, but you can make use of today; you cannot go smoothly, but you can do your best in everything.
10. The road of life is forcing you to come out. If you don't force yourself, you will never know how big you can do.If you cut off the retreat, you will naturally find a way out; if you cut off your fantasy, you will work hard. Force yourself to take the first step, the second and third steps will be much easier. If you don’t force yourself, laziness will gradually rust your heart, your former passion will be wiped out, and the value of life will be greatly reduced!