There is a saying: "Life has its length, blessing has its thickness."
Everyone's fate has its own length. And a person's own blessings are also different. People who are fond of fate will inevitably live long and have particularly deep blessings. People with poor life often have shallow blessings and find it difficult to be happy.
There are too many people in this world who work hard all their lives and have never enjoyed a day of blessings, and I don’t know why. Of course, they didn’t even think clearly about the reasons for the shallow blessings, so how could they talk about having good blessings?
people, if they want to be blessed, the first thing they have to do is to think about the essence of happiness, then make up for the shortcomings and live an optimistic life. This is the foundation of dealing with people.
There is a saying that says, I examine myself three times a day.
reflect on yourself every day to see where you are doing something wrong, where you are causing conflicts of right and wrong, and where something goes wrong. After many thoughts, we will gradually realize it.
For example, a person who is overly greedy not only loses everything he has, but also finds it difficult to get what he wants. This so-called "greed" is his most essential problem.
There is a truth to it. We must understand that suffering is found by ourselves, not given by our gods.
People have a bitter appearance and will go against God's will. People who have worked hard all their lives often have these appearances.
1. Arrogant and unrestrained, this is a bitter appearance.
There is a saying: "If God wants to make people perish, he must first let them go crazy."
All things that are ready to perish will always go crazy before they perish. Of course, people are no exception. Those who are too arrogant and arrogant usually won’t have good results.
There is such a rich second generation who is particularly rich and lives every day in glory and wealth. Not only did he not cherish such a life, he also felt that it was what he deserved and even looked down on others.
A few years later, this rich second generation provoked many enemies, and everyone hoped that he would be in trouble soon and was still making small moves behind his back. The result is that the arrogant rich second generation , quietly declined.
We all believe that the life of the rich second generation must be good. But we all forgot one thing: it is very simple for people to decline. But it would be particularly difficult to rise. The richer the second generation, the easier it is to lose everything in arrogance and end up with an unfortunate end.
As a person, no matter how capable he is, don’t be arrogant, so as not to decline after he is overwhelmed.
2. Very greedy and do not know how to be grateful, this is a bitter appearance.
has such a story.
An old fisherman was sitting on the shore fishing. Fortunately, he caught a goldfish that could fulfill people's wishes, which made him particularly happy.
After returning home, he told his wife the news. After hearing this, my wife made a wish with the goldfish, , she wanted a wooden tub that was not leaking. Goldfish fulfilled her wish.
, she has a wooden tub, but is still not satisfied and continues to make wishes to the goldfish. herself wants a big house and also wants to become a beautiful woman. Of course, Goldfish fulfilled her wish.
Later, She hopes that the goldfish can become her slave and always listen to her orders. Retribution finally came. The goldfish took back everything before and allowed her to continue to be poor and gain nothing.
Over-greed is the beginning of excessive poverty. The so-called "The way of heaven is full, and the way of human is full." Sometimes, greed must be stopped at the right time. There is no need to let your desires expand, thus losing everything, and doing nothing.
Perhaps, people who are content and happy will be more blessed.
3. The heart is higher than the sky and the life is thinner than paper. This is a bitter appearance.
Some people can only have ordinary lives, but they have to be greedy for the lives of rich people, and they still fantasize all day long, hoping that the pie from the sky will be obtained without effort, and there will be no good ending.
After watching the story of " Cinderella ", there was a woman who wanted to marry a noble prince, so she also learned Cinderella's approach and tried to confuse the prince and make the prince interested in her.
But this woman's approach aroused the disgust of the people around the prince, so she was taught a lesson and was covered in bruises. At that moment, she sighed that the fairy tale of is false, but reality is cruel.
heart should not be higher than the sky, because this is a taboo in life. Just imagine, a balloon can only blow so big, and if you have to blow it even harder, then it can only explode?
God has allowed us to have so many blessings, and it is God's mercy. Now, we are not satisfied and do not cherish it. We believe that God will take back the blessings.
You must know that what God can give us can also be taken back. This is something that human power cannot change.
4. Full of greed, anger, and ignorance, and anxiety, this is a painful phenomenon.
Why do modern people work hard for many years and still suffer? Because they are infected with greed, anger and ignorance, and are also filled with countless anxiety and anxiety. In this way, where does the blessing come from?
A master of Chinese studies said that God has given us peace of mind so that we can enjoy it. We did not discover and cherish it, and in the end God would not give us a chance.
For example, we have a simple and quiet life, fishing every day, and all kinds of flowers, and we can be safe every day. However, we are not satisfied. When we see others earning 100,000 yuan a month, we blame ourselves for being unhappy.
This is not "I don't know how to be blessed" ?
There are also some people who always like to think randomly, worry about the future, regret for the past, and have no confidence in the present, live in the present, and cherish the people in front of you. This is the real misfortune of being a human being.
If you can choose, then we might as well be a person who is as calm as water and cherishes the present. is out of reach in the past, and there is no need to pursue the future, you can do it now. is just that.
text/Shushan Youlu
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