Kindness is a very noble behavior. Not everyone can do it. Don’t persuade others to be kind. Don’t persuade others to be kind without suffering others. Goodness is relatively speaking. The evil you see is not necessarily evil, and the good you see is not necessarily good.

Kindness is a very noble behavior

Not everyone can do it

Don’t persuade others to be kind, don’t persuade others to be kind without suffering others.

Goodness is relatively speaking. The evil you see is not necessarily evil, and the good you see is not necessarily good.

For example, fortune tellers show others their appearances, and some people become confident, happy, brave, and live better and better. You are kind-hearted, but if someone is already good but you calculate, you can't sleep well every night, be afraid, accept your fate, and your life will become worse and worse, this is evil.

After you calculate it, you are very happy to get the money, but the person you calculate is not sure. Some people are happy and some are worried.

If you don’t count, everyone will understand life and understand life by themselves. Everyone has their own life, and there is nothing wrong with it.

so good and evil are relative.

For example, even if a friend’s girlfriend forces him to buy a house, perhaps as parents, she thinks that the power of a girl is immoral and unreasonable, but if her girlfriend is your daughter, wouldn’t you say that?

Buying a house may put a lot of pressure on the man, but what is guarding is a family and children, and there are two elderly people. For them, it is fatherly love + filial piety, which is kind.

The same thing should be divided into 2 and a half, and don’t just blame someone.

Just like I asked another friend’s father-in-law to help take care of the children, everyone thought she was ignorant, selfish, self-centered, a villain, and inconsiderate the elderly.

But for her daughter, she is a kind person, she finally brought them to her side. For her friend and husband, he can finally have the opportunity to fulfill his father's responsibility to accompany his children. For them, her friend is a kind person, but for her mother-in-law and grandparents, she is an ignorant person, which affects them to make more money and causes them trouble. Do you understand?

I think basic kindness comes from the heart, don’t harm others, don’t add fuel to the fire! Therefore, love yourself well, respect your heart, and bear the different evaluations given to you by different people!