This is the 817th original article of Dongxia Thinking Whisk Record. The number of words is about 5 minutes to read.
I am Chen Dongxia. I have been writing for 28 years and painting for 4 years
40 years before the age of 40, I was ignorant and confused. After the age of 40, I change my thinking and find the true meaning of life
determined to accompany you to find a lighthouse, enhance your thinking, expand your horizons, and open a different life.
In the morning, I sorted out and went out. I remembered the day before, I was 50 meters away from the road, watching the bus whistling by without stopping. When I crossed the road and stood on the platform, the bus was just where I could see the brake light at the rear of the car was on, waiting for the red light.
As a "veteran" on buses, I have long been calm and will never be upset about it, I will not deliberately stop time, and I will not chase after it again.
My home is about 800 meters away from the platform. It takes 10 minutes to wait for the elevator to walk. I would normally read the APP before and calculate when to walk is the best time.
is now free every day, and it is better to hit the clock than to choose the timing.
I think, to a certain extent, life is like taking a bus, and opportunities are like bus after bus. You chase after buses, and you may not get it, leaving you panting and sighing after falling;
You have no intention of gaining or losing, but there will be surprises occasionally.
This is very similar to a person. When he was young, he was rushing and rushed forward quickly. If he wanted to seize every opportunity and move forward bravely, he was afraid of missing a little.
slowly grew up, and you will know how to rely on tools, improve your skills, and plan in a clever way. In a trance, you think you can control everything. My destiny is not by heaven, and success or failure is determined by me;
Then, you will be "beated" again and again, and you will find that life is not as you imagined. If you work hard, you will definitely be rewarded.
The reality is that there are always uncertain factors that you cannot predict or control, which determine your success or failure.
You start to calm down, start to think, and start to no longer care about the "that bus" you want to take, consider more possibilities, maybe the next trip is good, and another route is OK, it is good to reach the finish line.
Later, you become casual and free, without fear of success or failure, everyone has a fate, be calm when you get it, be calm when you lose it, and be calm when you can ride it, and everything is fine.
1 Not annoyed
Once on the platform, I heard a young mother telling her child about 5 or 6 years old that I’m going to be late today.
The child didn't care and said, "Mom, look, where did the car come from? Look, there is an ant on the ground ...
Mom was very upset and didn't catch the class I wanted to take. She was late for class, but the child was innocent, so good.
complaining and accusing will not help, but many of us will automatically choose the easiest way - annoyance and trouble.
2 Don’t stick to
Since things have happened and cannot be changed, then don’t stick to it. In vain, try your best to recover the irreversible ones;
is better to change your mindset, wait patiently for the next shift, muster up the courage, stop taking the ride, take another route and arrive in a circle...
There are at least 3 solutions to any problem, and don’t stick to the “that bus” you want to take at the beginning.
3 Don’t bother
Anger, regret, blame, and sadness will greatly consume energy. If you immerse yourself in this for a day, it is no less than doing physical work for a day.
Therefore, you must change your mindset, adjust your behavior, develop habits, deliberately train yourself, and get out of negative emotions in the shortest time.
The world is not necessarily what you see, but the world that has been "transformed" by your brain. So, if you change to a "filter", you will see more colorful and more vivid and interesting things.
Life is short, life is sea of sea, relax, adapt to change, and live a life.
text | Dongxia
minimalist thinking innovator
full of curiosity, explore new fields,
become the leader of innovative thinking
has a picture in the mind, there is a road under the feet
has a picture in the mind, there is a road under the feet
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