May you: after thousands of sails, learn to be silent
The mountains are majestic; the sea is still vast; the eagle is silent, but soars in the sky.
It only took two years for people to go from birth to learning to speak. Later, I talked more and more, and I had already said almost the same thing as what I should say.
The mouth is a blessing and good fortune. After you have suffered enough losses from your mouth, you will slowly learn to shut up and fall in love with silence.
Silence is the beginning of a person's maturity and a profound and wise life.
So, when you reach a certain age, you are always afraid of noisy, afraid of getting angry, don’t want to please anyone, don’t want to argue, and spend the rest of your ordinary life in the way you like.
At this time, you may stay in the study for one morning, or be in the park for one afternoon, or sit alone in the courtyard when the sunset is setting, watch the afterglow falls, watch the stars, and watch the meteors pass by...
Just enjoy the comfort of life quietly and calmly, how wonderful it would be.
Being alone is the best state for a person and a high-quality quality of life.
Please say less, say less mistakes, and don’t affect your emotions because of irrelevant people and things, and waste your precious time.
You must try to spend all your time on what you like to do so that you can live up to the rest of your life.
When you reach middle age, silence is a normal state, a kind of cultivation, and also a person's top self-discipline.
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Silence is the pass toward maturity
When you are used to the coldness of the world, you don’t need to cater to others.
Just know the warmth and coldness of people, and there is no need to be petty. Therefore, choose a slow life, or go out to enjoy the scenery, or taste tea and read books. Being in the world, your heart is outside the world.
Along the way, everything you should experience has been experienced, everything you meet will be separated, and everything you don’t want to see will be stayed by your side.
Life is what you want and what you don’t want is always with you. When I wanted to have a cup of tea, someone sent me a rich coffee. This is how life is twisted.
Life is to experience storms, twists and turns, and even riddled with holes in your life before you can truly grow. As we went through thousands of sails, after seeing through the essence of human nature, we gradually became taciturn.
The book "Confetti in the Wind" says:
"In the deepest suffering, there is no moaning or crying, silence is the last dignity of the desperate.
In the most terrible humiliation, there is no curse or sigh, silence is the highest contempt of the Avengers."
The world kisses it with pain, but I want to repay it with song.
Yes!
Silence is a speechless song that reaches the heart. It is a steady and kind character and cultivation, and it is also a kind of education that does not hurt people. It is also a pass for a person to mature.
Once upon a time, we were also a person who loved to talk, laugh and was unrestrained. After the long baptism of time, it becomes taciturn, not happy with things, not sad with oneself, not fighting for fame and fortune, and looking down on gains and losses, and just want to be yourself in a simple and quiet manner.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"We used to long for the waves of fate so much, but in the end we realized that the most graceful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness in our hearts; we once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others."
After walking thousands of mountains and rivers, we gradually realized that the best way of life is to follow our hearts, look at our own scenery, and walk our own way.
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Silence is a top-level cultivation
Speaking is instinct, shutting up is a skill.
A smart person always smiles and speaks little.
more chapters are stupid, less wisdom. It’s useless to say more, it’s better to shut up.
There is a story in "Quran ". Someone asked the Prophet:
"What is the thing you fear the most in this world?"
Prophet pointed to his tongue and said, "I fear the most."
People who speak without restraint either hurt others or themselves.
As the saying goes:
The words are late, and people are more expensive. No matter what situation you face, you should slow down for three seconds before speaking, giving your brain time to think in case you speak too quickly and cause irreparable mistakes.
" Caigen Tan " has a thought-provoking sentence:
"Those who are impatient and rough will achieve nothing; those who are kind and calm will have their own blessings."
People who know how to restrain themselves are gradually becoming stable after experiencing many things. Being able to control their emotions with silence is a top-level cultivation.
A person who can control his temper is greater than a general who can win a city and can get the respect and respect of people around him.
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Silence is a person's supreme realm
Do not speak in depth, and a person is stable and does not speak in a stable state.
There is a master who once said:
"It is better to not speak than to others' right or wrong; it is better to not speak than to speak hypocritical words; it is better to not speak than to others' words; it is better to not speak without trust."
Silence is a kind of wisdom. Just like the pool water in the jungle, quiet and deep, but bottomless, it is deterred and dare not approach it easily.
Silence is also a person's demeanor. When soldiers come and generals come and generals come and cover them, water comes and earth comes and cover them. When it comes to powerless things, we always let things go and take things as they come.
Zhu Ziqing said in "Silence": "Silence is a philosophy of life, and when used well, it is also an art."
People communicate with people in many cases, often without too much language. Maybe they can understand it by a smile, a look, or an inadvertent action.
The body has no colorful phoenix flying wings, and having a heart of harmony is the tacit understanding of the soul, and it is also the supreme realm and essence of understanding.
Zhou Guoping teacher said:
"Because our truest selves are silent, the true communication between people transcends language. Listening to silence is listening to the song of the soul."
Sometimes the emotions expressed by silence are better than thousands of words. If you want to understand a person's heart deeply, please experience it with your heart and perceive it.
Silent people are often cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and rich and sufficient on the inside. Smart people know how to enjoy silence, enrich themselves and enrich themselves in silence.
Times pass by, time passes. The experience along the way has made us more and more silent. It is not that we have nothing in our hearts, but that we have a lot of words that we only say to ourselves. It is our conversation with our own souls. While we repeatedly ask ourselves, we also slowly release the pressure and pain in our hearts.
Silence is gold, so you are not afraid of fire refining. Only by taking the fire can you be reborn in Nirvana.
Ma Dong said: "A person's emotions come to an end, and it is silence."
After half of his life, he perceives the warmth and coldness of the world over the years, and has been through wind and rain, and sees the vicissitudes of the world clearly, so that he can reach the end of the water and sit and watch the clouds rise calmly.
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Silence is a manifestation of a person's inner strength
There is no need to say much about many things, leave a silence for yourself, not quarrel, not noisy, not worry or fear, not sad. With a heart that is as open as a heart, bravely face the misfortune of fate.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "I don't fight with anyone, and I don't care about anyone."
When you climb high and fall heavily, climb mountains and flow 8 rivers, and thousands of sails pass by, you must finally learn to be silent.
People who understand you don’t need to say anything, they always understand you. No matter how many people you say, they will enter their left ear and exit their right ear, so they will not take it seriously.
Silence is calmness and confidence, and it is a manifestation of a person's inner strength.
Opening your mouth is a kind of emotional catharsis; shutting up is a kind of attitude towards being unchanging and perverted.
Sometimes, the clear one is clear, and the turbid one is turbid, and there is no need to argue.
Cultivate yourself in silence, settle yourself, and make yourself a calm adult, know the worldly things, know the worldly but not the worldly. Accumulate strength in silence and accumulate strength.
Silence is a humble attitude and a manifestation of elegance and calmness.
Control your mouth well is a rare self-discipline and the top kindness.
A person’s true maturity is that he finally knows that taciturnness is the embodiment of a person’s confidence, independence and strength.
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Silence is a kind of practice, and speechlessness is a state of realm
If you experience it a lot, you will understand that silence can express it, so don’t use your mouth.
Only when you are silent can you live up to it and have a light in your heart.
"Stage of Flowers" says: Silence is a kind of practice, and speechlessness is a kind of state.
Sometimes, the emotions expressed by silence are better than thousands of words. Therefore, you should control your desire to speak, and don’t argue with people whose values are not on the same frequency. If your opinions are different, keep silent.
Just be yourself, don’t argue or speak without being sensual. Whether you are happy or sad is hidden in your heart, and be an adult who does not express his feelings.
Silence makes people feel deep, propositional, wiser, humble and broad-minded. Speaking is an instinct, silence is the greatest practice.
Mr. Lu Xun said: "When I am silent, I feel fulfilled; I will speak, and at the same time feel empty."
agrees deeply.
When you don’t speak, you are just getting along with yourself, so you are naturally very comfortable and comfortable.
You can use time to enrich yourself infinitely, and don’t waste a minute or a second on useless and consuming things.
A taciturn person has a world in his heart. You can pick chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, or you can fish alone in the cold river snow; you also have a sea in your heart, with fish and shrimps in your water, and the water surface is calm; you have a sky in your heart, with white clouds in your wings and great rocs flying; you have a vast grassland in your heart, green grass like a carpet, cattle and sheep in your heart, and thousands of horses galloping.
Silence is the background color of the soul and the essence of life. It is a kind of tranquility and far-reaching heart.
In this crowded world, there is a pure land that belongs to you. For a person with a heart that is as clear as an orchid in the valley, except life and death, the rest are all small things.
May you pass by thousands of sails and learn to be silent.
Author: Ma Yumei
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