Still water flows deep, and people move forward steadily.
Only by constantly accumulating, precipitating and sublimating can we achieve something from quantitative change to qualitative change.
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Silently
Someone said: "All the beauty that takes time to settle is worthy of our patience."
However, many people nowadays have difficulty in having the patience to finish a movie or a book.
As the saying goes, "Those who are restless will achieve nothing."
A person can only have the power to control his life by calming down.
An old saying goes: "Don't worry about not having a position, you can establish yourself." It means: "Don't worry about not having a position, just worry about not having a position."
When your ability is not outstanding enough, you don't have to rush to "highlight yourself".
If you find that you are hitting walls everywhere and no one appreciates them, then you need to calm down and polish your own strength at this time.
When a person's strength is strong enough, the opportunity will naturally come to him; on the contrary, if a person's strength is average but pretentious, then even if he strives to capture it, it will be futile in the end.
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Review target
Don't forget why you set out because you went too far. In the
desert, people often get lost. Because there are no signs in the desert, the terrain will change when the wind blows.
has no goal, and people are often trapped in the desert and unable to get out. When sailing at sea, it will be difficult for ships to dock without a lighthouse. The same is true for life, you need to look back at your goals at all times.
Only in this way can a person continue to be consistent and firmly walk on the right path after experiencing temptation and frost.
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Develop the habit of self-discipline
The more you are in a favorable situation, the more you should keep restrained and sober.
Don’t let yourself be influenced by the people and things around you, and don’t indulge in comfort and enjoyment, so that you can’t move forward.
When life goes well, what we should do most is to be more aggressive and work harder than before.
You must look forward to the long-term, find the internal driving force of action, and then use all resource advantages to continuously bless yourself and improve yourself.
At the same time, plan and manage time, formulate a task list, and make a concrete and visualize the learning goals of each day.
The initial stage of self-discipline is painful, but when you internalize it into an instinctive habit, you will sincerely enjoy the happiness and sense of value it brings.
The more self-discipline you are, the better you are. makes the circle smaller, stay away from meaningless people and things, and keeps self-discipline in the prosperity, and keeps the course of life.
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Learn to endure
It is said that life has three growths: one is when you find that you are no longer the center of the world; the second is when you find that you are powerless no matter how hard you try; the third is to accept your ordinaryness and enjoy the ordinary time.
The most difficult thing in life is to "accept reality". The reason why many of us often feel pain is because our hearts cannot be relieved.
Life is really hard, everyone is moving forward with a burden. Don’t fantasize about the peaceful years, but face the high pressure of the world and the sufferings of life.
Let go of unnecessary face and complain. Don't retreat, don't escape, try to take responsibility.
Don’t be scared by yourself, we are far stronger than we imagined.
Source: Master of Religious Style, Four Lessons of Life, Night Reading
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