"Blame the sky" means complaining about the unfair fate, bad luck, and complaining about God not giving himself a chance: "Blame" means blame others for their mistakes. People who blame others are essentially fragile in their hearts and extremely poor in their endurance. They are always making excuses for their mistakes to achieve a little lenient in their hearts. Such a person cannot accomplish great things.
One of the biggest characteristics of people who like to complain is to focus on shirking responsibility rather than on the matter itself. There are too many such people who are psychologically sensitive and pessimistic. The more they do, the less the goddess of luck will pay attention to them. Their successive disastrousness makes them believe that they are not lucky. This creates a vicious cycle. Many times, whether things are done well is basically not the key, the key is that they push everything to fate as soon as they have problems.
A young man has never been reused. Because of this, he is worried and extremely depressed. One day, the young man complained to God: "Why is fate so unfair to me?"
God was silent when he heard this, but just picked up an inconspicuous little stone and threw it into the pile of rocks. God said, "Go and ask the stone I threw away just now." As a result, the young man searched through the piles of rocks, but returned in vain.
At this time, God took off the ring in his hand and threw it into the pile of rocks in the same way. This time, he quickly found the ring - the glittering ring.
Although God didn't say anything, the young man suddenly became enlightened; he was just a little stone. Instead of a piece of gold shining, never complain about the injustice of fate to yourself.
God will not give too much luck to anyone. Faced with bad circumstances and temporary ups and downs, some people are complaining, while others are calmly examining themselves and asking if they have honed themselves into a piece of gold.
Indeed, the world is trivial and the world is chaotic, and it is inevitable to encounter the shrill wind and the cold rain. However, this is not suffering, but God’s test and tempering of life. At this time, what we need to do is not to blame others, but to constantly capture the wisdom of survival, endure suffering, face the blow, and finally polish yourself into a piece of shining gold.
It is always fair to go to heaven. When one day, when you are full of strength, no one can hide the brilliant glory. Therefore, young people should learn to pave the way for their future.
Father went to visit a church who had not been to worship for a long time and said, "There are too many problems with right and wrong among the church. A bunch of people are involved, and they like to talk about right and wrong among people. I feel very tired. I don't like such a church. If the church is not like this, but a simple place, I will go."
priest had no choice because he himself felt that there were many problems with right and wrong in the church, and these problems lasted for a long time.
He came back in frustration to ask the experienced old priest.
The old priest went to find the church member, and the church member repeated his words again, "If the church is a simple place, I will go."
The old priest smiled after hearing this and asked, "Have you seen such a church?" "
The church member thought for a while, shook his head and said, "I haven't seen it before. "
The old priest said: "If there is any, I advise you not to go either. "
The church member asked in confusion: "Why? "
The old priest replied: "You go and just pollute it. ”
The first reaction of many unsuccessful things in life is to complain. Complaint is not bad, but it can easily make people fall into negative emotions and taste sadness.
Cultural people complain about the church's right and wrong, but it is true, but the church must have its advantages. If you focus on its shortcomings, it will easily amplify the shortcomings and ignore its advantages.
Everything must have its advantages and disadvantages. First learn to think about such events, what can you learn? Since such a thing is encountered by a specific person, it can be seen that this must be a test question for this world to learn from. How to learn and grow is the most important thing.
Try to see the parts that can make you learn and grow, rather than focusing on the parts that make you lose yourself. If you feel that you are not satisfied with your talent and just blame the reason for your bad luck. Then this person is probably the kind of fatalist who only complains about God's unfairness. This type of people can be seen everywhere in real life, and most of them are mediocre people.
If you want a bright future in the future, you must believe in yourself now and understand that you are in control of your own destiny, it is not about others' business, nor about God's favor, so there is no reason to complain. As long as you believe in yourself and think about anything in a good way, you can constantly help yourself open up the world.
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