I will be afraid of sleeping alone, not afraid of thunder, not lightning, not afraid of thieves, and I am afraid of living alone to live in my old age.
Everything is fake, only life is real, and only inner feelings are real. People with good fortune can win with a calm attitude; people with poor fortune will suffer for the rest of their lives, and no matter how hard they work, it will be useless.
From enjoying loneliness, getting used to loneliness, facing loneliness to being afraid of loneliness. It’s okay to be lonely, but it’s not okay to live alone.
is afraid of dying of loneliness, so there are only two ways.
1. Looking for
. Boys are too bad now, are there still few reports? Scumbags, divorces, hooligans, violence, killing wives, soliciting prostitution... During the chat and understanding, in the process of fighting monsters and wicks and courage, only one is angry. Even if there are one or two normal people, I am not good at thinking now and I am old. Unless I have a special friendship, who would like me? Which turn is my turn?
But when I think of being single, I feel that everything is OK, but I am unwilling to give up, and I am anxious during the Chinese New Year and the holidays. I go and check it out on a whim.
2. Let yourself not be afraid of dying of old age alone
How can you not be afraid? I don’t have enough money to support my second half of my life, and I don’t have a car or a house that will make the world look down upon. I am just innocent and independent, with some savings and don’t owe anyone. The elderly at home have a house and social security, but my father is 70+ and he is in poor health...
I really don’t believe that there are people in this world who are willing to be single for the rest of their lives. At least two people are better than one person together, otherwise what can I do with him? You have to do laundry, cook, work, take care of your children, pay off your mortgage, and be regulated. You don’t buy gifts during festivals and holidays, don’t take you to eat well, you have to respect his parents... I raised myself well by myself, and I became this ghost when I came to you... Maybe you would say, this is marriage, this is life, but this is not what I want! ! ! Is it just for the beautiful scenery on the day of marriage, to get rid of the doubts and ridicule of the world, and to exchange for the tragic second half of my life...
is in love, I am a person with a cleanliness obsession, how can I get married at will!
Sometimes I also want to get married in a hurry. Even though that is the case, I didn’t really start to pay anything for finding a partner, I just waited passively. I also rejected several opposite sexes, although I understand very well, maybe they liked me very much at that time. But I believe that if they don’t come with me, they will meet other suitable people.
Don’t lower the requirements for choosing a partner because it is difficult to find a partner. It will only become more serious.
The poor rogue is worthless, and the rich rogue is extremely charming. When turbidity becomes a normal state, innocence is a sin. Opportunities and risks coexist. Sincerity and love are indeed luxury goods. Don’t think it’s easy to reduce the requirements for choosing a spouse, as that will only make you more angry; don’t stick to your height, shortness, fatness and thinness too much. Sincerity and reliability are more important to you.
If you are easily compromised in love, you will at least not be single all the time. There should be a few more people in love. Keeping the status quo means that there are still things that persist in your heart.
Modern men and women’s attitude towards blind dates, marriages and loves
but they cannot get it, but they fail to find it. I know it's difficult, but I still have to do it. These people are really stingy and unreliable. They don’t have money and want to be a hooligan. They even want to calculate for a meal. Their mentality is not normal if they have a slightly better condition. They try to gain a sense of superiority by attacking the other party, and show their sense of value by belittling the other party. They either have unacceptable bad habits, look tall and have no energy... This is by no means an individual phenomenon...
Of course, there are reasons for girls to be single, such as:
and stay away from poverty; they like to be alone; they are hard to heal; Buddha nature follows the circumstances; they are single in a continuous manner, and they want to fall in love intermittently; most people cannot reach it, good boys cannot meet, and they cannot escape what they encounter... But this is not the fundamental reason, it can be cured! I will give everything to my fate! ! !
Everyone says that women love money.Who gave you that little money? That meal? I don't love you, you don't even have the chance to spend money for me...
has seen some weird things, I think I will really forgive the hurt boys in the past, and I will really miss the boys who pursued me in the past. Thinking of their goodness, at least they are sincere...
Maybe men and women are all in this mentality now, and it's difficult to work hard anyway. Boys don’t want to pursue girls anymore, they don’t want to give sincerity, and girls don’t want to get married anymore...
People with good life can win with a calm mind. People with poor life will suffer for the rest of their lives, and no matter how hard they work, it is useless. I began to slowly accept loneliness, overcome myself, don’t be afraid, and tell myself that being alone is also good...
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Author introduction: Q Xiaowai, a writing enthusiast born in the 1980s. Love life, record and share, and use simple words, hoping to warm you up.
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