Every setback experienced in life is a growth. A person's growth is sometimes fast and sometimes slow. Those times that make you feel pain must be the fastest time you grow. When does a person grow the fastest? The following are the 10 fastest growing stages.

Every setback experienced in life is a growth.

A person's growth is sometimes fast and sometimes slow.

Those times that make you feel pain must be the fastest time you grow.

When does a person grow the fastest?

The following share the 10 fastest growing stages.

1 When I first entered society and was "beaten" by society

When I just graduated and entered society, whether it was looking for a job or renting a house, there were traps everywhere, and I was always paying the price for my ignorance.

People always have to go through some unexperienced things and pay some IQ tax before they can grow.

2 When a person is facing loneliness,

When a person is in a huge city, one person has to move, and go to the hospital for treatment alone. No matter what he does, he has to face it alone.

When you have to face everything alone, you will always learn to grow in loneliness.

3 When economic independence begins

Economic independence is the beginning of a person's growth.

When a person achieves financial independence, it means that he needs to plan food, clothing, housing and transportation for himself. Not only that, but also plans for his future life.

On the one hand, you will live more confidently, and on the other hand, you will also be subject to the ideological constraints of adults. You cannot do whatever you want casually, and you must also sacrifice time for economic independence.

4 When you come into contact with new things

When you come into contact with new things, you will be full of various uncertainties.

For example, the first time I write a work summary, the first time I write a plan, and the first time I do something I can't do. When I first started, I was extremely anxious and confused. After finishing, you will not only feel full of accomplishment, but also gain growth.

As you come into contact with more and more new things, you will find that your growth will be very fast.

5 When reconciling with yourself

When life reaches a certain stage, you will have all kinds of confusion and confusion, and you will also fight with yourself from time to time. To put it bluntly, your relationship with others and the world cannot be separated from yourself.

When you understand life, accept yourself, and understand how to reconcile yourself with yourself, the problems that trouble you can fundamentally solve.

This is a kind of growth for yourself.

6 When a person digests emotions,

complains when encountering things. It is a person's instinct.

When you understand that complaining is useless, it will only convey negative emotions, consume your own energy, and even let the people around you avoid you. You will understand how to digest emotions silently by a person.

Learning to digest your emotions is a process of self-growth and one of the essential cultivation for adults.

7 When you see human nature clearly

When a person sees through the essence of human nature, his acceptance and tolerance of different people will be improved.

The main source of conflicts between people lies in differences. When you truly understand the differences between people, you will understand that you cannot change anyone, and you can only change yourself.

When you get better and better, you will like everyone you see and will not argue with anyone.

8 When you are in a trough

When a person is in a trough, it is the time to suffer and the fastest growing time.

At a low point, people will feel pain, and the feelings at this time are often very profound. It is also this time that we can learn how to face pain and at the same time experience another kind of life.

9 When you wake up after suffering losses

As the saying goes, "Getting one's mistakes will make you more wise." Sometimes, suffering losses is also a kind of growth.

Almost everyone has experienced losing experience. Those who suffer losses without knowing themselves will suffer losses again because of similar things.

And people who wake up in time know how to recognize their ignorance in the experience of suffering losses, summarize past experiences, and allow themselves to continue to grow.

10 When you start to reflect on yourself

Self-reflection is an indispensable part of growth and a process of re-understanding oneself.

often feel that your growth rate cannot keep up with the pace of the times, just because you lack self-reflection and focus on pursuing external things.

When you seek inward, you will have a deep understanding of yourself, your cognition will change, and your life will suddenly become clear.

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I am Yi Feiyu, a free writer who retires to the countryside.

copywriter who has been drifting in Beijing for ten years.

Focus on self-growth and accompany you to meet a better self.