was born in this world, became a member of humanity, and everyone deals with people.
To live and interact with others, human feelings and worldly sorrow are indispensable.
The process from childhood to adulthood has experienced many things in the world that I didn’t know before and I haven’t heard of. Parents are the first teachers, and they also have obvious shortcomings and limitations. Not to mention anything else, just regional differences, whether they have culture is secondary. The perceptual cognition of experience alone cannot be achieved by reading a few books. The strange natural forms, plant species, and daily food and drink are not necessarily listed. Living in it, the accumulation of daily experiences and experiences has opened up many brain circuits.
We grew up all the way. In addition to what our parents taught us in our daily life, we are more about seeing the lives of others. Learn from other people's lives that you don't know. These unknowns include multiple fields, including life and diet, interactions with others, customs and customs of unknown worlds outside, etc. This process has been accumulated overlay. It is closely related to personal social skills and the chances of going out.
During the study period, in addition to the quality of academic performance and whether it is liked by the teacher, students over the years have the most basic relationships with classmates and have close relationships. This is where there is a close relationship without blood relationship outside of family and relatives. This opens the initial form of human relationships.
During this period, there is generally no circle between high and low. Although the parents also say something about the classmates who come and go, which one has less interactions, etc. Generally speaking, not many people follow. Because there are no acquired tinted glasses or snobs have not yet grown up. Cadres and children from wealthy families have no barriers to interact with children from ordinary families and become good friends. I just don’t know that these parents did not warn their children not to date those children. We gradually realized that people have family backgrounds. Therefore, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. This group of people is simply the two most basic circles: poverty and rich. Taking this as the basis, it is also a very basic power class and ordinary people class. This circle is spread all over the world. The power class is divided into officials and wealthy businessmen. There is a saying that summarizes this situation clearly and is not a person who is on the way. The circle between people is also very straightforward and clear.
has reached an independent life, not necessarily getting married and getting married. It’s just that you can work and live alone without your parents. I have my own human nature. Being able to be content with reading books and film and television works. You know the warmth and coldness of human feelings. The relationships you control will be transparent and the personal life path will be rich and colorful, and even climaxes will occur. That is, if you want to make friends with people of high quality or if you are trapped in the secular world, you cannot get out of it. It’s not that the relationship with Bai Ding is not so high-end, but that some high-ranking officials are so noble. You should not have too high requirements for yourself, and of course you should not have very low requirements. Do you look down on someone with a low status? That's not to say. I have just entered society, so I am not qualified to look down on Zhang San or Li Si. After several years, even if you can be considered as hiding among some people, you still have choices and boundaries when interacting with others. This is comparable to finding a partner. It is not to cast a wide net, but to focus on cultivating.
With human feelings, there will naturally be worldly sensibility. People have very simple feelings because they have the same hobbies and similar hobbies. They are all lovers of poetry and calligraphy, and are hikers who like mountains and rivers and pastoral areas. Have helped friends, colleagues and even leaders. Of course, there are also drinkers who are tempted by the taste. In a foreign land, the friendship between fellow countrymen and other places are everywhere and very broad.
China is a society of personal affection. The 5,000-year cultural context that has not been cut off can clearly and completely find the navel. The cultural heritage left behind is vast. It is not easy to find a peaceful and peaceful life. Isn’t it okay to think about it or not? This question mark is awesome!
The secular life seems to be vulnerable, so the world of monks is pure? The abbot of Shaolin Temple has a child, which is true or false and noisy. A while ago, Nanjing Xuanzang Temple enshrines Japanese war criminals, but it has not yet been settled.A pure land? There is no pure place!
If you want friends to continue to do it and relatives can still maintain it, then you can continue to get along with them in a mess. Because in interpersonal relationships, there are always things that are not clear about right or wrong. If you fight for everything clearly, then be alone.
: Since you can't understand everyone, you can only considerate yourself or feel wronged.
Don’t think too high. In other people’s world, no matter how good you do, you are just a supporting role. Don’t hold the past too tightly. No matter how good the past is, it has passed. It’s time to have a few friends, a pot of wine among the flowers, love the people you should love, and live a happy life.
How can every moment be beautiful and happy? I have also faced a bloody life. There are many things that are not enough to be hard for the outsiders. Even if I muster up the courage to speak out, it will be a mess and bloody place.
When life gets better and better, I gradually take many things lightly. The memory is full of other people's kindness to you. Even those who made you grit your teeth back then can sit down and have a drink.
Don’t become what others like because of hard work, but in the end you even forget your true self. When you only have yourself in your heart, you always feel that others have not done enough; when you only have others in your heart, you always feel that you have not done enough. Since you can't understand everyone's relationships and worldly affairs, you can only consider yourself. Don’t blame others for letting you down, you can only blame yourself for expecting too much. Giving up and gain are nothing more than a cycle of reincarnation. Once you see through it, you will feel relieved.
I really don’t know what I’m thinking when saying those unkind words. If jealousy stays between flowers and fields, it is not a worldly firework. If it is not nice, it means not understanding the worldly ways. If you don’t care about what others do, others won’t care about what you do.
The world is cool and changeable, the world is full of warm and cold, everything is full of twists and turns in ancient and modern times, and it is easier to follow the ups and downs of the world.
There is such a world in my heart, not noisy or impetuous, in that world, you can meet the same kind, think what I think, love what I love, don’t have to understand the worldly ways, don’t know everything, don’t compete, have a wonderful life.
Where can I go like this? How can I get such a good thing?
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