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Shenzhen makes money and spends Shenzhen, and I want to take it home...
Someone ran away for half his life, but he was still a teenager when he returned. I ran away for half his life, but he was still a poor currency when he returned...
I had many evil things in my previous life, and I worked overtime in this Mid-Autumn Festival...
Looking at the group chat that had been silent for several months suddenly became lively again. , I clicked in and saw the above content!
Hahaha, I’m almost laughing.
The dogs can't change the way they eat shit may be the ones they talk about. Although they haven't chatted for a long time, when they talked, their funny temperament was still visible...
So, several people started chatting in the group.
complained about the boss, complained about colleagues, and criticized the object if there were objects. Of course, this was inevitably beaten by a group of single dogs...
Until I saw someone talking about him and suspected that he had been to a big city for so many years. What, the style of painting suddenly changed.
"I have been to a big city for so many years, but I haven't made any money, and I still have divided the objects. When I go home during the Chinese New Year, I find that there is not even a person in the village who can speak. The big city can accommodate the soul, but not the body, the county town It can accommodate the body, but the soul..."
Slowly, I found that everyone seemed to have this idea.
I doubt the meaning of staying up late and working overtime, saying that the boss is painting cakes all day long. If it weren't for the bad market environment outside, I would have long since thrown my resignation letter on the face of the boss...
I doubted myself Is the decision I made with the partner right? Now I have a quarrel with the partner every three days and a big quarrel every week and a tired heart...
Looking at these words, I suddenly remembered a sentence Hemingway said: If you were lucky enough to visit Paris when you were young, then no matter where you go in the future, it will follow you...
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Actually, it is also for us so.
Sometimes, when we doubt whether it is worth staying up late to work overtime in a big city, we may not be careful to think about Hemingway's words.
Sometimes, what we get on the surface is salary, but behind the scenes, we may get more.
I have different insights on the saying that big cities can accommodate their souls but cannot accommodate their body, while small counties can accommodate their body but cannot accommodate their souls.
In fact, in my opinion, this just means that you have been influenced by big cities.
Many people think they are at two o'clock all day, either at work or on the way to work. After being in a big city for so long, maybe I haven’t even seen and played with the famous landmarks of this city. How could a big city affect me?
But in fact, some things will slowly affect you without realizing them.
When you are used to the fast pace of big cities and you return to the county town and village, maybe you will suddenly feel like you are a different life.
When you get used to the slander in your industry, when you go home and face those peers who have never been out, you may just feel lonely.
It is difficult for you to integrate into them, and they are also difficult for them to integrate into your world...
At this time, you may suddenly realize: Damn, I was actually affected by the big city...
It affected me, but it did not give me it. A chance to stay, haha, scumbag!
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When we doubt whether something is worth it, sometimes we are more expecting to get that result.
But in fact, what really matters is not the result, but the process.
It’s like when we are with each other, we most of us will expect a result, and the two will enter the palace of marriage. Of course, it can also be said to be the grave of love...
And when we stay up late to work overtime, we will most of us hope this Be able to make results and be seen by your boss and boss, then be promoted, from then on, get promoted and get a raise, marry a rich and beautiful woman, and reach the peak of your life...
is like, when we were studying, we often asked our teachers, learn calculus and how much we learn What's the use? In life, we can't use mathematics except buying vegetables.
We will also ask, what is the use of learning English? Most of us may not even have the opportunity to say words to foreigners...
Also ask, what is the use of learning geography, history, and Chinese...
Every subject seems to be suspected of its function.
Of course, every subject also has its own effect that it cannot be ignored!
and more importantly, and what is interoperable is that no matter what subject, it can cultivate your learning ability, personality, thinking, etc.
We often talk about science thinking and liberal arts thinking, which is actually what it means.
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Many things will affect you subtly, But humans are like creatures, if you don’t encounter others being rebounded, you won’t be able to see yourself clearly.
Therefore, many people will doubt what the results they have learned can bring to themselves, but they often ignore that more important process.
is like, if you really know that you and the person in front of you will break up in the future, would you still be willing to agree to him?
Or you are thinking, if you haven’t even experienced the sour smell of love before getting married, are you more regrets or more happiness? (By the way, this marriage partner is probably a blind date.)
You answered, are you willing to love each other vigorously, even if you break up in the end, you are still willing to wait for your parents to think that you are about the same age and it's time to get married and then you are After a series of death urges to get married, go to have a kiss and then get married in a hurry?
Are you willing to be the current one or the latter one?
At this time, you are here to tell me whether the result is important or the process is important?
You think the result is important, but sometimes if you don’t have a process, how can you get the result?
Your current good results may be brought by the previous ninety-nine bad results.
You have accumulated ninety-nine times of experience before, and then I did it this time.
What is really useful in life is actually the process, the process brings you the accumulation, connections, experience, and technology improvement, and then you will have the subsequent accumulation and development!
Even if you really don’t accumulate strength in the end, this process also brings a little unique color to your life, right?
What do you think?
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