1. Make plans in advance
small one day one week, and large one month one year. For example, get up 10 minutes in the morning, wash up, and think about what to do in the day. This will make you calm and moderate every morning; in addition, you can arrange your work 10 minutes in advance, so you can have plenty of time to deal with emergencies. We can see that most people who do everything 10 minutes in advance have a strong view of time and principle, and have a full sense of security when working with such people. Having a plan for doing things seems like a small thing, but it will definitely make people closer to success.
2. Read, the fastest way to improve yourself
" has a poetic and literary spirit and is blessed " Good books may not immediately bring you the success you want, but they will definitely make you a better self. Persist in taking 1 to 2 hours of reading every day, develop the habit of reading, and use books to see a wider world. Over time, the spirit in those stories will naturally become your extraordinary insights and conversations. Reading is like eating and getting pregnant. There will be no changes in the short term, but over time, you will find that it is very different from before. So it is great to insist on studying and studying even if you study very little every day.
3. Learning the advantages of others
Confucius said: "Handling three people must have my teacher. Choose the good ones and follow them, and correct them for the bad ones. " In life, we can see that there are actually many people around us worth it. Our studies include teachers in the school, superiors who have left the society, experts, etc. These people have their highlights, which are very worthy of our study.
4. Life lies in exercise . The key to exercise is to stick to
" The body is the capital of revolution ". If we think about it carefully, we will find that whether it is family, career, friends, etc., it has a lot to do with a healthy body. , so it is very important to exercise regularly and exercise. In addition, true exercises must be persistent, not "practical". There is a big difference between those who exercise and those who do not exercise, which is not only reflected in appearance, but also in spirit.
5. Reflect on
" Think of the good and the good , and reflect on yourself when you see the bad ", life is like driving on the road. If an accident occurs, you must first reflect on whether you are inappropriate. After all, the road is where is it placed. Why do you make mistakes and make mistakes? So if you look for reasons from yourself in advance, you can strengthen yourself; if you don’t blame others blindly, you can stay away from other people’s resentment. Zengzi said: "I examine myself three times a day -Are you unfaithful for planning others? Do you not believe in friends? Do you not be familiar with me? You can see that is the same as the self-cultivation of a gentleman. Always thinking about one's own mistakes is a kind of education rooted in the heart.
6. True wealth is the smile on the face
Joyful heart is a good medicine. Sometimes, what keeps the body in good condition may not be a variety of health products, but rather a positive and healthy mindset. There is a smile on my face and a sunshine in my heart. People who are good at smiling will have a kind thought and gain a conscience; give a sincerity and get a respect; convey a love and feel a warmth. Give yourself a smile to make your mood suddenly clear, not be upset about yesterday, not be confused about tomorrow, be content with happiness, and be quiet and far-reaching.
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