The most rare thing in life is the word "tolerance". If we can be patient and patient enough, the greater our achievements will be in the future. A simple word contains the great truth of life achievement. We have to print this word in our hearts and remind ourselves at all times.
In fact, many of a person’s blessings and merits come from patience. Often, things are screwed up or no progress is due to lack of patience and inadequate tolerance. In the following three things, if you can be patient enough, you will become a great player in the future.
First, you must be able to endure worries and sorrows. Ancient people have a poem: "If you live for less than a hundred years, you will always worry about a thousand years." It is rare for a person to live for a hundred years in his life, but people often worry about what will happen thousands of years later. There is also a saying that "Nine out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory."
In fact, no one can do it if a person wants to be truly smooth and perfect in his life. But why can some people live happily, freely and leisurely, while others live in depression all day long? It lies in the difference in mentality.
We should not be overly obsessed with the troubles in life. Perhaps in the moment, things that seem extremely painful and sad will be gone after today. Even if there are many things, as long as we remain calm, You will slowly clarify your ideas, find the problem, and thus make a breakthrough.
Second, you must be able to endure the warmth and warmth of human feelings. As the saying goes: People’s hearts are separated from their stomachs, and they don’t know what they do. Even if you know a person or have a close relationship, your thoughts and actions at critical moments may surprise you. Everyone has their own selfish thoughts and distracting thoughts and their own unspeakable sufferings.
In short, due to various reasons, unpredictable results have been caused. Whether we gain benefits or lose benefits, don’t be overly obsessed. People are cold and warm. Only those who have experienced it know that those who are good to you must cherish and never forget to be grateful; those who are bad to you should not hold a grudge for a long time. On the contrary, it may be because of them that it has prompted you. Just wait for your growth as it happens.
Third, it is too cold to be high, and you must be able to withstand the heights of life. The so-called "higher ones are prone to falling". The higher the position and the greater the reputation of a person, the greater the responsibilities and obligations he bears.
In the eyes of the public, you should know how to be cautious and careful in dealing with people, otherwise you will easily be caught and ruined. When life is at a high level, you must know how to restrain and avoid it, avoid its sharpness, and endure loneliness, which is a sign of auspiciousness.