If a person lacks the love of his parents, then such people who lack love in their hearts are likely to like people with gentle personalities that can bring him happiness. Also, people who lack love cannot fall in love. Once they love, they will be humble to the dust. Even if they are beautiful and have a good figure, they still feel insecure. They feel that the other person will not always love themselves and their emotions are led by others.
If a person has followed the rules since childhood and was too restricted by his parents, then he is likely to like to be unruly and pursue freedom. In fact, the essence of everything is compensation. What you lack when you were a child will ask for it like a "pervert" when you grow up.
Especially if the care is too strict, the child is very inferior and cannot integrate with the people around him. He is taciturn, always alone, not communicating with others, (no friends) depressed. I hope every child will be happy, instead of going out all day in some seemingly useful textbooks, and I will really start over again when I go out.
Each of us longs to be loved and also longs for freedom! The effort that can be paid without seeking rewards cannot be understood by the spirit! I want to ignore everything, escape from all constraints, and also want to stand on the side of morality and responsibility and get support!
Actually, I think everyone has a part that lacks a sense of security. We should work hard to care for ourselves and overcome this part. More importantly, the other half must also be able to give a sense of security, rather than changing the part that heals itself again Oops.
I hope everyone can be relieved, let go of themselves, and the original family. From now on, don’t escape or complain, love yourself well, and hope we can all be braver and love ourselves and accept the love of others. I hope we can heal our lives and live a new life.