Xue Xuan said: "Only broadness can accommodate people, only thickness can carry things."
Those who achieve great things are often broad-minded enough to tolerate everything, and they are often generous in style, which can be said to be virtuous.
A person's destiny is hidden in a person's character.
People with a generous personality are open to all rivers, generous and broad-minded. They are happy in life and can afford and let go of everything.
Those who have a stingy personality tend to allow themselves to be emotional, or even indulge their temper, and eventually become slaves to their emotions, ending up in a pitiable end.
1: Those who are generous will win in harmony.
Those who are generous will not fight without fighting, but will fight hard.
In order to achieve the "big fight", they will not be stingy on trivial matters, nor will they be stingy on trivial matters.
People who are like chickens are used to worrying about everything. They are eager to express their opinions no matter how big or small the matter is. They are easily irritable and irritable.
A person with a chicken belly naturally cannot hold anything in his heart, nor can he hold anything in his heart, because all he sees in his eyes is the present, all is the present.
Now that I have suffered a loss and been wronged, I feel that my self-esteem has been injured. I feel that I am living in this world without any shame, and I have even begun to be full of hostility towards this world.
Because I have little knowledge and narrow vision, all I see is dark, despicable, and even completely unfair.
But as everyone knows, it is precisely because of his own reasons that he is trapped in the "well" of life. It is he who has turned himself into a living frog at the bottom of the well.
On the contrary, a generous person must have an open mind, a broad vision, and a lofty plan. Naturally, he will jump out of the "well" of life, jump out of the small place, and see the big place.
people, once they gain experience and open their eyes, they will naturally realize their own insignificance and become more tolerant, gentle and generous.
People like this, no matter where they go, they will get along with others and communicate harmoniously.
"Tao Te Ching" says:
"All things bear yin and embrace yang, and the energy is in harmony."
All things are accompanied by yin and yang. If you blindly pursue yin, you will lose yang, and if you blindly pursue yang, you will definitely Lose Yin.
On the contrary, I reject the separation of yin and yang, keep the yin and yang accompanying me, and tolerate both, so that the two are harmonious and compatible, and then they can be used by me and strengthen my mind.
2: A stingy person is defeated by his temper.
A stingy person is used to being in trouble with himself, and prefers to be in trouble with others.
If you can't live with this, you can't live with that. In the end, no one can satisfy you. You can only drown yourself in negative energy emotions and lose the direction of life.
A person with a bad temper will have fewer and fewer friends; a person with a fickle temper will have more and more people staying away from him.
British writer William Herzlitt once said:
"A good temper is a fortune in life."
A good temper is also a kind of wealth. This kind of wealth can be used to invest in interpersonal relationships and can also be used to build a strong psychology.
Thus, whether it is for oneself or for others, a person with a good temper can make the people he comes into contact with feel more beautiful life.
Therefore, a good temper is like the sunshine on a sunny day, emitting light and allowing those who bathe to bask away their fatigue and sadness.
Stingy people often suffer from bad tempers, and even though they know that there is no possibility of saving them, they still don't repent.
On the contrary, when a person with a good temper encounters a problem, he will first conduct a rational analysis to find the root cause of the problem, and then clearly find a solution to the problem. People like
will not become emotional because of things, nor will they be internalized because of difficulties. Instead, they will focus on themselves in the right direction.
Be a smart person, avoid meaningless sacrifices, and avoid self-motivated dedications. Make sure that every effort you make is worthwhile and meaningful.
is a person with atmospheric atmosphere to avoid being caught in a stingy quagmire, and to stay away from those right and wrong, grace and grievances, let yourself stand in a higher position overlooking the world.
3: Being a man, or a good atmosphere
" Caigen Tan " said:
"to make one step high, step back and progress; "
is waiting for people, May wish to be tolerant, tolerant, so, no matter whether good or bad, when you have enough tolerance and tolerance, you can naturally summarize some experiences from all things. Although
has cracks even if everything is everything, you can always find positive things from it, because your vision has improved and the pattern has grown.
This is because when you polish your self -atmosphere step by step, it fades the characteristics of the stingy, belonging to your future, just on the road.
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