Many times in life, we are always disturbed by complicated information, uninvited guests, and other people's guidance. If you want to take your time and concentrate on doing your own thing, you must learn to turn on the "shielding mode". By blocking out all kinds of things that i

Many times in life, we are always disturbed by complicated information, uninvited guests, and other people's guidance.

If you want to take your time and concentrate on doing your own thing, you must learn to turn on the "blocking mode".

By blocking out all kinds of things that interfere with us, life will become easier and easier.

Block spam and filter negative energy

The father of Western management Drucker said:

"The most inefficient thing in the world is to do the most useless thing with the highest efficiency. "

In this noisy and bustling world, we passively receive massive amounts of information every day.

A large amount of messy and disorderly information that is not useful for life and study occupies the brain space. The brain has no time to digest and understand, and it will become information garbage. When the load capacity of the human brain is exceeded, it will affect mood and attention, and even seriously interfere with people's judgment. Over time, it will also cause harm to the human nervous system.

There is a girl named Lili who plans to spend a fulfilling day.

But when I arrived at the company and just started to reply to work emails, a coupon push message from a shopping platform popped up on my phone.

She immediately clicked on the message, looked at it for a while, and found that there was nothing she wanted to buy. Then she opened the short video and forgot the time as soon as she swiped it.

By the time Lili remembered to deal with the work, it was already approaching the noon time to get off work, so she had to leave her work until the afternoon.

But in the afternoon, there was not enough time to complete the whole day's work, and the remaining work had to be left to the next day.

But Xiao Zhao in the same group is different. He gets up in the morning and makes himself a nutritious breakfast while listening to a book. After dressing up, he goes to work neatly.

responds to work emails immediately after arriving at the company, works in an orderly manner according to the plan throughout the day, and uses fragmented time to read, and exercise after get off work. When he gets home, he can take a comfortable shower and watch a movie in bed.

As time went by, Lili’s career stagnated and she became depressed, let alone promotion and salary increase.

Xiao Zhao's work status is getting better and better, and he was promoted to the team leader in just half a year.

In fact, when the brain has no time to digest and understand the large amount of complicated information we receive every day, the useless information becomes information garbage, interferes with our attention, and turns into negative energy.

Too much information will not only not be helpful, but will disrupt attention and affect judgment.

Therefore, we need to eliminate the spam and focus on meaningful things.

Only by blocking spam messages and maintaining high concentration can you complete everything efficiently and spend every day to the fullest.

Shield ineffective social interactions and focus on self-improvement

British philosopher Bacon said: "Friendship doubles joy and halve pain."

Everyone is happy to make good friends. But maintaining friendships doesn’t mean you need to socialize constantly.

Good social interaction makes people happy, but ineffective social interaction not only wastes time, but also makes people tired.

Fang Zi and Wang Yong are good friends.

Fangzi likes wine, but for his health, his family has "strict control" on his wine. Wang Yong often needs to invite clients to socialize. Although he knows that Fang Zi's family does not allow him to drink, for the sake of business, Wang Hai still "helps" Fang Zi find excuses to let him go out to socialize with him, and Fang Zi happily goes every time.

At the wine party, Wang Yong would always order Fang Zi’s favorite drinks and dishes. When customers wanted to exchange glasses with Wang Yong, Fang Zi would hold back the wine for his brother every time.

Wang Yong often lamented during the banquet that it was very rare for him to have a good brother like Fang Zi.

In Fang Zi’s eyes, Wang Yong is a very good friend, and he always thinks of him whenever he has something good to eat or drink.

But even if you drink well, there will always be times when you drink it down. After drinking, Fangzi was hospitalized due to stomach perforation. After Wang Yong learned about it, he just comforted him for a few words on the phone and went back to socializing.

At this time, Fangzi felt regretful.

At the wine bureau, Wang Yong negotiated a lot of business, and earned a lot of money from a few orders. However, despite the dissuasion of his family, he happily ran to socialize, but in the end he could only lie on the hospital bed, suffering the pain alone.

There is a sentence in the book " Please Stop Ineffective Social Networking ": "You are busy socializing and tired of coping, and the embarrassment of talking to each other is everywhere. You run for the laughter of others, and for the recognition of others If you sacrifice yourself, your life will not seem to be yours. In fact, you are not socializing at all, but wasting your time needlessly. "

Giving up on ineffective socializing and doing what is best for yourself is what a smart person should do. .

After all, good friends don’t come from a glass of wine, but they are met while running on their own roads.

The real network resources are established based on three views and strength.

Everyone’s time and energy are very valuable. Instead of socializing aimlessly, it is better to calm down and improve your abilities.

When you are good enough, there will naturally be people willing to go with you.

Shield the lives of others and refuse to blindly compare.

There is a saying that makes perfect sense:

"When people are not pursuing happiness, but being happier than others, happiness will be far away from us."

I read a story, Qiu Qiu has a "highly competitive" class group.

When I first graduated, the students studying abroad in the group always posted photos of their travels and complained that the food abroad was not delicious; the students who were working were showing off their high salaries and good benefits, while complaining about their bosses, saying that their income was not enough. .

As time goes by, the class group becomes an arena for students to "show off".

Qiuqiu was also a famous figure in her student days. However, her development after work was not as smooth as her classmates. However, she was unwilling to be inferior to others and was afraid of losing face, so she began to pretend and compare.

One time, Qiuqiu even inflated the company's benefits by five times in order to save face, and then he "won".

Qiuqiu was also very depressed about this matter. She originally didn't like lying or showing off, but in that environment, in order not to lose face, she couldn't help but start comparing herself to others.

In order to create his own "successful persona", Qiuqiu would dress up carefully every now and then, go to a high-end restaurant, take photos, and then dress up his "circle of friends".

As time went by, Qiuqiu felt physically and mentally exhausted, and she felt that the friendship between her classmates had also changed.

In front of others, we often show our bright side and hide our ugly side.

Qiuqiu doesn’t know the whole picture of other people’s real lives. She only uses her own shortcomings to compare other people’s strengths, and one-sidedly feels that she is inferior to others.

As everyone knows, this will only make yourself more troubled.

In order to save face, he does not hesitate to lie to create an illusion, bury the hidden danger of being exposed, and make himself distressed and uneasy. Isn't this just looking for trouble?

Other people’s lives, in the final analysis, have nothing to do with you. And your life has nothing to do with others.

You don’t have to live by paying attention to other people’s lives. You have to learn to block other people’s lives appropriately.

Smart people will not blindly compare, let alone let vanity drag down their lives. Only by being down-to-earth and improving yourself step by step can you live an ideal life.

Shield the outside world’s opinions and find your own rhythm

Schopenhauer said: “The most special weakness in human nature is to care about how others see you."

Li Xueqin, who stood out for " Talk Show Conference " , shared an experience of her own.

After graduating from Peking University, Li Xueqin, like many classmates, chose to stay in Beijing to develop. .

When I went back to my hometown in Northeast China to visit relatives, my seventh aunt The eighth aunt took turns to persuade her, saying that Beijing was not good and the pressure was high, so she told Li Xueqin to go abroad and study abroad.

So, Li Xueqin went to New York to study for graduate school.

She never expected to go back to her hometown. When visiting relatives at home, the seventh aunt and the eighth aunt took turns to educate her, saying how good Beijing was and how many opportunities there were, and accusing her of not staying.

In the end, Li Xueqin saw through it: "The only purpose of those people's lives is to tell me: I am born as a human being. You are sorry. "

Haruki Murakami said in "Norwegian Forest": "No matter what everyone in the world says, your own feelings are correct. No matter what everyone in the world thinks, you shouldn’t let this disrupt your rhythm. "

When you can't see through it, the opinions of the outside world are layers of shackles, which affect the rhythm and direction of people's progress.

After you see through it, the opinions of the outside world are like shackles. Opinion is just a joke, just laugh it off.

said in the book "The Road Less Traveled": " The path that is truly suitable for you is not to be pointed out by others, but to walk on your own. ”

Everyone has his own path. We can follow the path of others, but we must think about what path is most suitable for us. Without this exploration process, we will not be able to live our best selves. .

If in order to cater to others Is it worthwhile to change one's own ideals in order to meet other people's expectations?

We are all adults, we know how to listen to good advice, accept true guidance, and we must also learn to abandon our own motives. The murmur of jealousy and the noise that brushes one's presence

wishes. You and I can properly block the sounds of the outside world, move in our own direction, follow our own rhythm, and be our truest selves.

Really smart people have already adjusted their lives to "blocking mode"

If you don’t want to get involved, then quickly adjust your life to "shielding mode".

The more you live in the bustling world, the more you need to know how to block the noise and noise.

The world is noisy and complicated. I hope you have clear goals. Travel light and stay safe

But even if you drink well, there will always be times when you drink it down. After drinking, Fangzi was hospitalized due to stomach perforation. After Wang Yong learned about it, he just comforted him for a few words on the phone and went back to socializing.

At this time, Fangzi felt regretful.

At the wine bureau, Wang Yong negotiated a lot of business, and earned a lot of money from a few orders. However, despite the dissuasion of his family, he happily ran to socialize, but in the end he could only lie on the hospital bed, suffering the pain alone.

There is a sentence in the book " Please Stop Ineffective Social Networking ": "You are busy socializing and tired of coping, and the embarrassment of talking to each other is everywhere. You run for the laughter of others, and for the recognition of others If you sacrifice yourself, your life will not seem to be yours. In fact, you are not socializing at all, but wasting your time needlessly. "

Giving up on ineffective socializing and doing what is best for yourself is what a smart person should do. .

After all, good friends don’t come from a glass of wine, but they are met while running on their own roads.

The real network resources are established based on three views and strength.

Everyone’s time and energy are very valuable. Instead of socializing aimlessly, it is better to calm down and improve your abilities.

When you are good enough, there will naturally be people willing to go with you.

Shield the lives of others and refuse to blindly compare.

There is a saying that makes perfect sense:

"When people are not pursuing happiness, but being happier than others, happiness will be far away from us."

I read a story, Qiu Qiu has a "highly competitive" class group.

When I first graduated, the students studying abroad in the group always posted photos of their travels and complained that the food abroad was not delicious; the students who were working were showing off their high salaries and good benefits, while complaining about their bosses, saying that their income was not enough. .

As time goes by, the class group becomes an arena for students to "show off".

Qiuqiu was also a famous figure in her student days. However, her development after work was not as smooth as her classmates. However, she was unwilling to be inferior to others and was afraid of losing face, so she began to pretend and compare.

One time, Qiuqiu even inflated the company's benefits by five times in order to save face, and then he "won".

Qiuqiu was also very depressed about this matter. She originally didn't like lying or showing off, but in that environment, in order not to lose face, she couldn't help but start comparing herself to others.

In order to create his own "successful persona", Qiuqiu would dress up carefully every now and then, go to a high-end restaurant, take photos, and then dress up his "circle of friends".

As time went by, Qiuqiu felt physically and mentally exhausted, and she felt that the friendship between her classmates had also changed.

In front of others, we often show our bright side and hide our ugly side.

Qiuqiu doesn’t know the whole picture of other people’s real lives. She only uses her own shortcomings to compare other people’s strengths, and one-sidedly feels that she is inferior to others.

As everyone knows, this will only make yourself more troubled.

In order to save face, he does not hesitate to lie to create an illusion, bury the hidden danger of being exposed, and make himself distressed and uneasy. Isn't this just looking for trouble?

Other people’s lives, in the final analysis, have nothing to do with you. And your life has nothing to do with others.

You don’t have to live by paying attention to other people’s lives. You have to learn to block other people’s lives appropriately.

Smart people will not blindly compare, let alone let vanity drag down their lives. Only by being down-to-earth and improving yourself step by step can you live an ideal life.

Shield the outside world’s opinions and find your own rhythm

Schopenhauer said: “The most special weakness in human nature is to care about how others see you."

Li Xueqin, who stood out for " Talk Show Conference " , shared an experience of her own.

After graduating from Peking University, Li Xueqin, like many classmates, chose to stay in Beijing to develop. .

When I went back to my hometown in Northeast China to visit relatives, my seventh aunt The eighth aunt took turns to persuade her, saying that Beijing was not good and the pressure was high, so she told Li Xueqin to go abroad and study abroad.

So, Li Xueqin went to New York to study for graduate school.

She never expected to go back to her hometown. When visiting relatives at home, the seventh aunt and the eighth aunt took turns to educate her, saying how good Beijing was and how many opportunities there were, and accusing her of not staying.

In the end, Li Xueqin saw through it: "The only purpose of those people's lives is to tell me: I am born as a human being. You are sorry. "

Haruki Murakami said in "Norwegian Forest": "No matter what everyone in the world says, your own feelings are correct. No matter what everyone in the world thinks, you shouldn’t let this disrupt your rhythm. "

When you can't see through it, the opinions of the outside world are layers of shackles, which affect the rhythm and direction of people's progress.

After you see through it, the opinions of the outside world are like shackles. Opinion is just a joke, just laugh it off.

said in the book "The Road Less Traveled": " The path that is truly suitable for you is not to be pointed out by others, but to walk on your own. ”

Everyone has his own path. We can follow the path of others, but we must think about what path is most suitable for us. Without this exploration process, we will not be able to live our best selves. .

If in order to cater to others Is it worthwhile to change one's own ideals in order to meet other people's expectations?

We are all adults, we know how to listen to good advice, accept true guidance, and we must also learn to abandon our own motives. The murmur of jealousy and the noise that brushes one's presence

wishes. You and I can properly block the sounds of the outside world, move in our own direction, follow our own rhythm, and be our truest selves.

Really smart people have already adjusted their lives to "blocking mode"

If you don’t want to get involved, then quickly adjust your life to "shielding mode".

The more you live in the bustling world, the more you need to know how to block the noise and noise.

The world is noisy and complicated. I hope you have clear goals. Travel light and stay safe