Zhou Guoping once said:
"There are only two kinds of diseases that people get, one that does not need to be cured, and the other is incurable.
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The world is fickle, the gentleman does not fight for the heat and cold, and the law of happiness in life is to fight and not to fight. .
Indisputable, we have our own world, but also our own realm.
Not all fish will live in the same sea, just as not all people live on the same level.
People will inevitably be misunderstood and questioned when they live a lifetime. Someone who understands you will feel sorry for you, and others who don't understand you will make you avoid it.
and those who really have a big picture know that they are indisputable:
.Don't care about momentary right and wrong.
As Nietzsche said:
"gaze back into the abyss with the evil dragon for a long time."
Life is precious and should not be wasted on unnecessary disputes, caressing about bad things out of nothing, entangled with innocent villains, and in the end it is all about having trouble with yourself.
I heard a joke:
, he always thinks that there is a way of fighting with other people for three days. It's innocent.
depressed him to ask the wise:
"What is the secret of happiness?"
wise man told him:
"happy,Just don't argue with the fool about right or wrong. "
He began to refuse again:
"Is it impossible? How can it be so simple, I don't think. "
master smiled and said:
" You're right "
can no longer ignore him
want. To be truly happy, it’s better to shut your mouth tightly and don’t argue.
Keeping time for yourself, leaving other for time, not caring is the best response to everything.
As the saying goes:
"Always compete with the same likes, and don't compete with fools." "
Concession is not weak,It is a kind of open-mindedness.
People who don’t reason with the foolish and can tolerate bad things without arguing are those who have a big picture.
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It is true that a person's life is always hovering between gains and losses, and tossing in sorrow and joy.
Just like Shen Fu wrote in " Six Chapters of a Floating Life": Difficult to measure."
When a person is enslaved by external things, a small matter will firmly restrain him.
The gains and losses are the same.
When you are not happy with things or sad, you will be able to pick it up and put it down at any time.
There is such a short story in "Zhuangzi Tianzifang". Shoulder Wu asked Sun Shuao:
"You didn't give up three times but Yin was revealed to be an official." Did not show a sad look,
is always so happy and comfortable, what do you think in your heart?"
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The more gains and losses are contested, the more things will bind him.
On the contrary, the less he asks, the less things bother him.
Life is a process of losing and gaining at the same time.
is like a small river of dust.
Fortunately, I lost my life. Instead of struggling with past gains and losses, it is better to calm down and live a good life.
For the rest of your life, relax your mind a little and fight for gains and losses. Maybe everything will be clear.
the Han Zhang Heng in " Gui Tian " said:
"Gou to the longitudinal center Outside things, you know where you are and where you are."
means that as long as I stay out of the world,If there is nothing in your heart, how can you care about his glory and shame?
As the saying goes, the depth of the water is silent, but the person is steady.
In addition to fighting, there are many elegant choices and ways to live.
Mountain does not explain its own height, and does not affect its towering;
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The height of life is not how much you see clearly, but how much you take lightly.
Yang Jiang once translated the English poet Rand's poem:
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My hands are warmed by the fire of life; the fire is dying, and I am ready to go."
This poem can also be regarded as a portrayal of her life:
In this bustling world,Most people are thinking of getting ahead and chasing fame and fortune.
But Yang Jiang is not like that. She reads and writes, translates and studies academically, just because she is happy.
Faced with the dark twists and turns of her life, she has always been firm in her heart, just doing her own thing;
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No dispute.
In this world, not everything can be explained, and not everything needs to be explained.
You can’t decide what others think and how to say, but the only thing you can do is to be open and clean.
Therefore, you don’t have to rush to explain in case of trouble. Don’t worry about merits and demerits. A clear conscience is the best result.
Zhou Guoping said:
"I never care how others evaluate me,Because I know what's going on with me, if a person is unsure of myself, it is easy to care about other people's opinions. ”
To deal with life, you only need to know what you have in your heart. No matter how others look at it, you should keep your heart awake at all times and be firm in your pursuit and yearning.
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"Cai Tan root" in wrote:
"husband does not contend, and the world with monensin. "
Indisputability is not confusion, but rare transparency and wisdom. It is a kind of wisdom.
Do everything, follow the destiny of heaven, and face the impermanence of the world with a normal heart.
I can afford it, put it down, and face the twists and turns of right and wrong with a reckless heart.
Everyone has a field of good fortune in their hearts. The so-called "no quarrel" is to get rid of the weeds in the soul, so that there is room for happy flowers to bloom.
Let go of unnecessary pride and greed, and let go of unnecessary airs and vain ambitions.
Not staying in place, not afraid of loneliness, and not clinging to perfection, not only being at ease, but also moving forward.
This is also a positive life that ordinary people can have.
The world is disturbing, and an indisputable life has its own world.
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