01 Changing the subconscious is the key
Any person, thing, or thing that comes into our lives does not come out of thin air without any reason.
Everything is for us, everything is the best arrangement.
Or above, all external realities are projections and images of our inner subconsciousness. Our subconsciousness wants to see it, or it is attracted by our subconsciousness through a series of complex operations that are not aware of our consciousness.
Whether it is good or bad, whether we like it or not, whether it is wonderful or terrible, it is the reality that our subconscious mind automatically attracts and thinks is suitable for us and most suitable for our current state and level.
Therefore, if you want to improve your life, it is useless if you just keep your head down, grit your teeth, work hard and persist. The first thing we need to change is our subconscious beliefs and concepts.
Life is a mirror, and what is reflected is the true face of the subconscious. If you want to see the reality you like, it is useless to just change the mirror. What we need to change is the reflection in the mirror, that is, our subconscious.
As for how to change your subconscious mind, we have already made some introductions in the previous relevant parts, so we will not go into details here.
Today we will discuss from the source how to change our subconscious attitudes and concepts about money.
02 The Past and Present Life of Money
The first thing that needs to be clarified is how money is generated and where does it come from?
We humans did not have such a thing as money at first, so we exchanged things we needed through barter.
I exchanged an animal skin for a few pieces of your dried meat, you exchanged a bunch of berries for one of my stone axes, , and he exchanged a wild boar for my two goats...
Slowly, with the evolution of human beings, people's range of activities became larger and larger. Everyone felt that such barter was too inconvenient. You took two goats to other tribes to exchange for wild boars. What if the goats ran away or were eaten by other beasts?
So after discussion, everyone decided to use a relatively rare thing that everyone recognized as the medium of exchange. Slowly, shells, which were relatively difficult to obtain at the time, made their appearance and became a tool and medium for value exchange.
As humans learned the smelting technology, various metal currencies that were easier to preserve gradually replaced shells and other exchange media.
The currency at this time is actually valuable, and its face value is basically equal to the value of its exchange.
But slowly, everyone still thinks it is inconvenient, because metal currency is a very troublesome process from mining to smelting and casting, and it is also relatively heavy, which is not conducive to people traveling far away from carrying large quantities.
Later, almost 1,000 years after Cai Lun invented papermaking, the first paper currency in human history, "Jiaozi", finally came into being in the Northern Song Dynasty which was the most densely populated, economically prosperous and technologically advanced land in the world at that time.
At this time, paper money has lost its identity as the equivalent of and , and has completely become a tool and medium for value exchange.
Nowadays, not to mention, money is basically a number that can be seen but cannot be touched.
03 Eliminate the "unworthy" complex in the subconscious
The form of money has been evolving, but its most basic core and essence has never changed, that is, the equivalent exchange of value.
We get money because we pay to match the value.
The more value or benefit others get from us, the more money we get.
Similarly, the less value you give to others, the less money you get.
No matter how much you give, if your contribution has no value to the person you are giving it to, he will not reward you.
Going back to our childhood when we first had wrong understandings and concepts about money, we are not actually redundant, incompetent, or useless.
We are actually using what our parents want and what we can do to the best of our ability - smart, sensible, well-behaved, obedient, good academic performance, etc., to get the praise, recognition, and love we want from our parents, as well as the snacks, toys, shoes, clothes, and other rewards we want.
We have not gained something for nothing, nor are we useless. We are also giving everything we can.
In a sense, this is actually an exchange of value.
But exchange itself is a necessary skill and means for our survival, and there is nothing shameful about it.
From the moment we came to this world, we have been giving our best, so we are worthy of all the good things in the world.
From now on, let the "unworthy" complex go to hell!
Because it is these subconscious feelings of “unworthiness” that prevent money and all good things from coming to us.
It is very important for each of us to correct our subconscious wrong memories, opinions, attitudes and concepts about money.
Even if you are satisfied with your current income, financial situation, and living status, and you have repaired and healed your mental knots, it will still have a good chain reaction and impact on your life - no one will refuse to make their life better, right?
04 Finding and realizing one's own abilities and values is itself a manifestation of abilities and values.
Money is just a medium and carrier for value exchange. It is not good or bad, and there is no distinction between good and evil. What it represents is only the abilities and values we have realized. The money you get now is equal to the ability and value you can realize now.
didn’t get the money we wanted because we didn’t find, or didn’t have, greater capabilities and value that could be monetized.
And the most critical thing is value.
has average abilities, but if he uses it in the right place and finds the right objects and methods, he can still make a lot of money and make money every day.
has outstanding capabilities, but it is used in the wrong place and has not found a suitable method or object. Naturally, it is of no use to people who are good at playing the piano, melodious, and heroes. Improving the capabilities and value of
is a long-term, arduous, and difficult process. It is the most important but not the most urgent task, because you cannot achieve it overnight in a short time. It is useless even if you are anxious to death or crazy.
Therefore, what we need most is to get more money and improve our financial situation with our existing abilities and values.
Think about it, what abilities, advantages and values do you have? Who can these abilities, advantages and values help solve their needs and problems? Are you willing to pay you a salary that matches your value? In terms of wealth,
can be monetized, which itself is a manifestation of ability and value.
Even if you are doing an unchanging fixed job, even if you are getting a fixed income that is growing slowly, even if you have no plans or plans to change jobs now or in the future.
Think clearly about these issues, find your own strengths and characteristics, and find aspects that you can improve and improve. This will also have a positive, positive, and predictable impact on your work and life.
05 Increment is the key. After
has chosen the direction in which it can be monetized, what still needs to be considered is how to add value incrementally.
Of course, the priority is increment.
One thing or one service, even if you can only make a dime at a time, you can sell thousands of them every day. If you add up a little, you will get a lot, and what you get in the end will be very impressive.
Similarly, even if you can earn 10,000 yuan for a thing or a service, but you can only sell two or three orders a year, it will be difficult for you to improve your financial situation.
Because high places are hard to come by, the higher the value of something, the smaller the objects and scope to which it is applicable or can be enjoyed, that is, the market and demand are relatively limited.
Doing business for 10 people and doing business for 1,000 people may be very different in terms of the value of a single item, but the difficulty is also very different - the more something can meet the needs of the general public, the easier it will be accepted by everyone.
Of course, this involves another problem: the easier something is to do, the more people gather together and the greater the competition.
This requires us to find new ways and methods to attract and impress consumers - of course, you cannot mislead or deceive consumers.
As for whether to choose the mass consumer market where the bayonet is popular, or to choose a specific group with relatively small competition, but the target and market are also relatively small, and provide the value and services that others need, we need to comprehensively consider and weigh it ourselves. What are the capabilities that
has, what is the value it can provide and realize, what is the market demand, what is the competition situation, what are the advantages, possibilities and directions for standing out...
should consider these issues clearly, choose the method and direction, and start taking action without hesitation!
06 Action, action, action again
Of course, you may fail and encounter setbacks, but if you don’t start or try, how will you know where there are pitfalls and traps, and what abilities and qualities you want to improve and improve?
Sitting in a well and looking at the sky and talking on paper will not help improve our current situation. What we need is action, action, and more action!
try, try, try again!
adjust, adjust, adjust again!
changes, changes, changes!
success, success, success again!
Try in action, adjust in action, change in action, and achieve the success we want in action!
Set yourself the most realistic goal: make a little more today than yesterday, even if it’s just a dollar or a cent more!
In order to achieve this goal, you will slowly start to expand your ideas, try every means to stimulate more of your potential, try and discover more possibilities and methods.
When making money becomes a habit, when our daily income can be greater than our normal daily expenses, and when we can earn on the side - that is, when we can obtain continuous passive income and rewards without having to continue to pay, our abilities and values will be maximized, we will achieve true financial freedom, and our lives will be complete.
I hope you and I can find ways to realize our abilities and values, and I hope you and I can attract money to come to us quickly and in large amounts.
thank you and bless you.
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