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Lin Qingxuan wrote in "Salty or Light":
The sound of the world on the outside, the freedom of looking inside, don't forget the original intention, and let go in time.
To be honest, in this life, as long as you don’t forget your original intention and move forward firmly towards the established goal, nothing can hinder you.
As long as you have the courage and open-mindedness to let go, you will be able to achieve a different self.
Letting go is a kind of wisdom and a kind of courage. Not everyone has the brains to make the decision to let go, and not everyone has the courage to take it and let it go.
Since you let go, you have to let go of what you have. It may be real material things, it may be spiritual sustenance, or it may be a combination of the two.
Today is no longer a primitive society, and it is not an era where whoever has the strength can dominate.
The synonym for strength is no longer muscles, but more about inner wisdom and perseverance, and comprehensive ideological qualities, including decisiveness, self-control, endurance, etc.
There is a saying that "a man can take it but let it go." Letting go means letting go of your inner emotions.
What can be easily given up is not called letting go but discarding, and the real "letting go" is a process from separation from reality to spiritual abandonment. The shorter this process, the less interference "letting go" will cause to people.
In the final analysis, life is like drinking tea, but picking up and putting down many things, if you have the courage to pick them up, you must have the openness to put them down.
When one day you can calmly face all the gains and losses in life and truly "let go", it means that you have become a strong person.
Being able to take things up and put them down means that a person's mind is becoming more mature, and rationality defeats sensibility more often.
The more this is the case, the more beneficial it is to people's real development. After all, people have seven emotions and six desires , and these emotions also restrict people's decision-making.
can "let go", which means that a person is truly becoming stronger.
Let go of the past and forgive yourself
It seems that everyone has a past that is unbearable to look back on, and they dare not touch it easily for fear of being bloody again.
No one can make mistakes unless they are saints and sages. People are bound to make mistakes in this life, even if this mistake will become a mark for your life.
But people cannot always live in the haze of the past. The right way is to know shame and then be brave. Mistakes gradually disappear in making up for it. Shame slowly dissipates in progress. The past will eventually be the past. You must know how to forgive yourself and let go of everything in the past.
Letting go of the past is to let the frustrated figure disappear, pick yourself up again, and face the people and things that once frustrated you.
Of course, this requires great courage and character, because a person’s first reaction after encountering a trauma is to cover the scar. To face it intuitively takes time and courage.
You can't grow if you can't get out of the past. The aspect where you encounter setbacks will always be a taboo in your life. This is not only a restriction on the road of life, but also a shadow. Once it is mentioned and remembered, frustration and inferiority will quickly come to mind.
But no matter what, you need to face every past that you dare not face. It is like an old score that must be settled.
Let go of hatred and reduce internal friction
Hatred is a boundless sea of suffering. When will retribution be repaid? People who can let go of hatred are truly the masters of life wisdom.
Letting go of hatred does not mean forgetting hatred. Enemies of country and family will never forget them. These hatreds cannot be forgotten and we dare not forget them.
But obsessing over hatred can make people fall into a painful cycle, just like using other people's faults to punish themselves. However, even if they know these principles, many people find it difficult to do it.
Everyone has his own principles in doing things. Although most people are not bound to retaliate, they do not allow their dignity to be trampled on.
Once the anger of hatred is out of control, it will bring harm to both sides and one tragedy after another . Stopping when enough is enough and learning to let go can avoid many tragedies.
Especially for some small fights, some people will not give in to their own interests, and if others have encroached upon them, they must take them back.
The ideological realm of "suffering a loss is a blessing" is something that few people can actually achieve. Today you step on me, and tomorrow I will punch you back. When will this kind of "you come and I go" end?
Rather than retaliate in various ways, it is better to let it go first to avoid internal friction.
Let go of your feelings, don’t look back, don’t hesitate.
The past in the mortal world is often a hindrance to the world.
Almost everyone will experience love at one time or another. There are lucky people who meet the love of their lives and can stay together for a lifetime.
is more of a sad person, either separated because of personality differences, or unable to move on due to material conditions.
The sadness brought by love is like a sharp sword piercing the heart, even a strong-willed man will have tears in his eyes.
True letting go is not about forgetting, but about facing it calmly, cherishing the unexpected beauty, and accepting the separation when the relationship is exhausted.
The more hurt you are, the deeper the memory becomes. It is impossible to forget. The only way to let go is to face it. Only when you face it more will you know what you want and what the separation has brought about. The calmer you face it, the cleaner you can let it go.
A good horse never turns back. In fact, the separation between lovers should respect the original decision of both parties. Time will not resolve the essential contradiction, but will only dilute the hatred in the hearts of both parties. If they start over again, they will only repeat the same mistakes.
However, bystanders can always sort out emotional matters, but those in power are in the dark. How to control inner emotions is the first factor in letting go of past relationships.
Time and Emotion Classroom:
Sometimes, the harder it is to let go, the harder it is to let go. If you can accept it today, then there will be no difficulties in the beginning.
Whether it takes time or energy, you must do something if you don't do it. When it's time to let go, you must use reason to defeat emotion and learn to reason with yourself.
Putting down two words can be said easily, but it is definitely not something that ordinary people can do, so the strong ones naturally belong to the minority.
Letting go is a process of overcoming oneself, letting go of the past, letting go of obsessions, and letting go of utilitarianism...
If you can let go, you will have completed your self-transformation and self-breakthrough, and become a person with a strong heart.
