Human nature is a relatively fixed group consciousness and characteristics that are different from other animals, formed by continuous polishing and adjustment during millions of years of evolution in order to survive better.
Just as there are good people and bad people in the world, human nature naturally has a bright, motivating and inspiring side, as well as a dark, ugly, and even evil side.
The world is not black and white, but colorful.
Human nature is the same. No matter how bad a person is, there are bright and warm moments, and no matter how good a person is, there are selfish and indifferent moments.
As long as we are alive, we cannot escape the subtle influence and influence of human nature on us, and the bright side and dark side of our human nature are engaged in overt or covert confrontation, debate and battle almost all the time.
When the light side defeats the dark side, we radiate the brilliance of humanity. We are bright, upright, and selfless. At that moment, we are perfect gods!
When the dark side prevails, we will show more animal instincts or desires, and will use any means to destroy, invade, destroy or harm others for the sake of our own interests or the satisfaction of desires.
Therefore, human nature is a double-edged sword, and we need to deeply value, recognize and understand human nature.
is not only to let the brilliance of human nature illuminate our lives, but also to avoid and reduce the harm and impact of the dark and negative side of human nature on us.
can also be said to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages is an innate instinct and trait in our human nature.
This is a built-in memory and program in the subconscious mind, so when we see a puddle, we will immediately avoid it. When we feel danger, we will immediately be alert and make an instant fight or flight stress response.
Similarly, when we see delicious food, we will swallow our saliva reflexively. When we see beautiful women, we can’t help but want to get close to them. When we see something we like, we can’t help but want to touch it.
We will feel comfortable when we see kind people, but when we see insidious and cunning people, we will instinctively resist and want to escape.
When we encounter free good things, we will rush to grab them. For an opportunity to make money or be promoted, we will fight to the death, and even use dirty tricks, damaging tricks, and bad tricks.
It is our human nature and instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, but many people with evil intentions and ulterior motives also take advantage of this instinct of ours, often leading us astray step by step, falling into their carefully crafted traps, and even becoming obsessed and unable to stop.
Have you ever bought something in a live broadcast room and regretted it so much that you wanted to buy it?
Wow, this thing is so cheap!
I remember it used to cost 99, but today it only costs 29.9!
decisively follow and join the fan group.
After listening to the anchor frothing at the mouth and rambling on for a long time, he finally got in the car and started fighting.
Unfortunately, I didn’t get it because there were only a few places.
can't help it. I blame my slow internet speed and hand speed. I'll wait for the next wave of benefits.
Like this, you may spend all night in this live broadcast room, but in the end you still can't get it.
And under the temptation and brainwashing of the anchor's endless and progressive words, you may get excited and buy something that is completely unplanned.
Cheapness is the inducement, which exploits our profit-seeking nature, and limit is the key. It exploits our nature of aversion to losses (avoiding harm or avoiding losses), and makes up for the losses within the embankment (finally buying other things that the anchor really wants to sell, to obtain a kind of psychological compensation). Of course, it is also mixed with psychology and nature such as luck and greed.
Even if we are really lucky in the end and grab the thing we want, the benefits we can get are not worth mentioning at all compared with the time, energy, anxiety and worries about gains and losses we have spent.
The instinct to seek advantages, avoid disadvantages, and hate losses, which is exploited by unscrupulous people, makes us buy a lot of things that we don’t need at all and regret.
Take a look at how many things, membership cards, and coupons around you have been bought on impulse by merchants and brainwashed by them, and then shelved in the end?
At this time, seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages has caused us to suffer more than we gain.
Some fund-raising and investment traps that promise high returns, but ultimately cause many people to suffer heavy losses, all take advantage of people's greedy and greedy nature, making many people rush to give away their hard-earned money and pension money willingly.
The nature and instinct of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages is originally to protect us, to obtain greater benefits, and to avoid losses and harm at the same time.
But what if this nature and instinct are infinitely amplified or designed and exploited by unscrupulous people?
Can it still protect us?
Pies will not fall from the sky. What falls are often dead branches and leaves, stones, bricks, wine bottles, and even kitchen knives that may hurt us!
But we always think of ourselves as the lucky one who wins the lottery, or the survivor who can avoid risks and avoid harm.
How can there be such a good thing in the world!
Therefore, when facing temptation, please stay sober and aware. Pies are not always available, but traps are always there.
At the same time, when encountering bottlenecks and difficulties, you also need to stay awake and aware to see if there is any room for recovery and whether there are new hopes and possibilities. Don't be frightened by the unknown and fear and choose to retreat and give up easily.
Of course, this will create a new problem. Some of us are obviously strangers or bedfellows in relationships sometimes, or in career, we are obviously at the end of our rope and cannot make ends meet, but because we have invested or given too much time, energy, emotion, Money, I feel that if I give up now, the sunk cost is too great. It is such a pity, and I am too unwilling and reluctant to give up. In the end, I choose to support and persevere in the painful torture and suffering, giving up the entire future forest for a small tree that will not grow in front of me. This is the most failed classic example of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages.
This requires us to comprehensively consider, comprehensively evaluate and measure. We should neither be indecisive or hesitant, nor make impulsive and hasty decisions and judgments.
Many things are not as good as they seem on the surface, and some things are not as bad as we first think.
In these times when we are faced with difficult choices, we need the intervention of our hearts and souls.
Take a deep breath, calm down your mind, close your eyes, and have a dialogue with your heart. How to choose
and where to go? Our hearts will give us the answers that are most suitable for us (relevant skills and methods will be further introduced and discussed in subsequent articles).
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