"Four out of five people cannot enjoy the happiness they deserve." A famous authoritative claimed that he also said, "Unhappiness is the most common mentality." And the basic principle of each of us living is happiness, so we should strive for it.
Happiness can be obtained. The method obtained is not complicated. Anyone who desires happiness, who is determined to get it, who learns and applies the correct laws, can become happy people.
Later last month I met a couple on the train to Hengyang , and they were sitting opposite me. The lady was dressed very well, and her mink and her clothes all showed this. But she was extremely unhappy. She complained loudly about the carriage being too dirty, serviced, and food being hard to swallow. Everything made her complain and upset.
Her husband is a kind and easy-to-get-in-one person, and he obviously has a huge amount of tolerant of all this. It can be seen that he was a little embarrassed by his wife's picky attitude, and he was a little disappointed because he took her out for fun. In order to change the topic, he asked me what job I did and said he was a lawyer. Then he made a big mistake, because he smiled and said, "My wife is doing manufacturing." This surprised me, because she didn't look like she was in a business or a business type, so I asked, "What are you creating?" "Unhappy," he replied, "He created unhappy for himself." Although this irrational judgment covered the atmosphere with a layer of ice, I still acquiesced to his opinion, because he portrayed exactly what many people did--they created unhappy for themselves.
Many problems in life itself have diluted our happiness. It is indeed extremely stupid to extract unhappiness from your own mind. It is so stupid to produce unhappiness yourself and add it to other difficulties that you cannot control or cannot control at all! We produce unhappiness ourselves because of things that we are unhappy in our minds, because of the attitude we are used to, such as negative feelings that nothing will have good results, or feeling that others have what they shouldn't have, and we don't get what we deserve.
Most of the unhappiness that ordinary people have caused by themselves. So how can we not produce unhappy, but rather produce happiness? Treat happiness as a habit. Because our happiness depends to a large extent on the habits of the mind we cultivate.
The Proverbs in the Bible are a collection of the most wise sayings. It tells us: "...If you are happy in your heart, you will always enjoy a good feast." In other words, you should cultivate a happy heart, develop the habit of happiness, and make life a feast that never ends, that is, you can enjoy life every day.
A happy life is out of a happy habit, and habits can be cultivated, so we have the ability to create happiness for ourselves.
One of the most basic and simplest principles to achieve is human kindness, love and tolerance. Tolstoy says: "Where there is love, God is wherever there is." We can also say that wherever there is God and love, there is happiness. So one of the practical principles of creating happiness is to love. Happiness comes from a peaceful heart, a kind heart. Know how to be grateful and tolerant
