saw a question.
asked a question, are people who don’t post on WeChat Moments all people who are not doing well?
is not doing well, so there is nothing to post, so I don’t want others to know about my situation and experiences, so I hide myself and don’t update my circle of friends at all.
So, there is no update in the circle of friends at all, not before, and so at present. At first glance, the statement of
seems quite reasonable.
However, if you think about it carefully and compare it with the people around you, we will find that it is not the case.
If a person doesn’t post on Moments, it’s not so related to whether he’s doing well. Many times, it’s really not that related to whether he’s doing well.
is more restrained and low-key, and has no intention of posting.
Some people tend to be more introverted.
On weekdays, he doesn’t say much, and he doesn’t have any ideas about his circle of friends.
is not very willing to expose his life to others' eyes, let others see their joys, angers, sorrows, and happiness, and is not willing to let others know what they like and what they don't like.
Basically, he will digest all the joys, sorrows, and happiness by himself, feel them by himself, and will not be willing to share them at all.
Compared with other people, he pays more attention to his privacy and always looks particularly low-key when dealing with people.
never easily get close to anyone, nor easily break into someone's life. He always has boundaries for the outside world, people and things around him.
His inner world is always very rich, but he always wants to express it to others and let others understand it very little. He can digest everything by himself. He is used to this and prefers such a lifestyle.
Anyway, he will go and see what others have posted, but it is not possible for others to know him, unless it is a really close relationship, someone he really cares about.
focuses on reality and does not require others to pay attention.
People who like to post on WeChat Moments are to record their lives, more or less, but in fact, I still hope that someone can pay attention to them, give them a thumbs up, comment, and interact with them.
loves life more and enjoys the feeling of being followed by others and having some communication with others.
Generally speaking, many people have this idea, but there are always people, and they really don’t have much.
Instead of managing his circle of friends and interacting with some people who are not so familiar, he will only focus his eyes on those who are really important to him.
often goes home to see your parents, often accompany the people you like, and do something with your children.
He likes the feeling of living in reality. When everything in front of him makes him feel very satisfied, even if he is not so dissatisfied and there will be some dissatisfaction, he will not want to post it on Moments.
doesn't care about it at all, and he doesn't have that interest. With that time, he is more willing to do something else.
In his heart, he had already thought it very clearly that no one except himself would really pay attention to his life. Therefore, you don’t have to seek attention from anyone, you should do whatever you should do, live as much as you should.
feels troublesome and is too lazy to think about sending something.
Speaking of which, posting it on Moments is just very simple. Write a little bit and take a photo.
However, in fact, compared to being so casual, many people actually spend a lot of time and energy, think carefully about every word, choose carefully, and refine every picture.
is quite satisfied with everything and thinks that it is what you want, and then it will be posted.
is really not that simple, it’s just quite troublesome. There are always some people who occasionally want to post it, but when they think that it’s so troublesome, they don’t want to post it anymore, so they just let it go.
is more afraid of trouble and hopes that everything will be easier, and he will be persuaded to withdraw because of trouble.
is simply lazy, not really lazy, but too lazy to post. If he has that time and does something else, he will feel better.
Over time, after giving up a few times when I wanted to express it, I completely chose to give up and no longer willing to try it. Later, I no longer had that interest and desire.
His circle of friends has always been like that. There are only some news from a long time ago, or there is no news at all. It is just empty and clean, and I can't see anything at all, and I can't read much information. Whether to post
or not to post on Moments is just a personal choice, and it really has nothing to do with whether you are doing well.
is really, some people are not doing well at all, but they send a lot of messages every day, and some people are doing very well, which is exactly what everyone dreams of, but they never update their Moments.
So, many times, if we want to post it ourselves, we can post it. If we don’t want to post it, we can not post it.
At the same time, we really don’t have to judge the other party by whether a person posts to his Moments.
Understand a person, you can refer to the circle of friends, but you can't just look at the dynamics of the circle of friends.
, then you really can't tell anything.
still needs to get closer and have some communication in real life to really understand and see each other clearly.
text/Tan Meng
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