know what you want, work hard in the direction of your heart
Work hard when it should work hard,
Rest when it should rest,
will never use pretending to work hard to deceive others.
because the result will never be with you.
Always follow your inner upward choices on the road of life.

2 reconcile with the past, face the truest self calmly
Many times we are always resentful of people and things in the past,
was kidnapped by the past,
You must know that the past will eventually pass.
Only when we live in the present and put aside the people and things in our hearts before, can we face our truest selves calmly.
Even if you encounter setbacks in the future,
will not be defeated by yourself first.

3 Don’t care about others’ evaluations of themselves
No matter what we do,
can stick to being ourselves.
Don’t get a sense of identity from others,
follows the truest thoughts in your heart.
others like or not,
others are happy or not,
will not affect your opinion.
will not lose confidence and courage in yourself because of someone's prejudice against us or
.
is just like Fan Zhongyan said, "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself."

4 Learn to let things go, accept your shortcomings
things that do not belong to you,
don't force it.
Put your mind flat,
everything goes with the flow.
We can accept perfect ourselves while
can also accommodate our shortcomings.
is the same for others.
Only in this way can you open your mind and
correct your views.

5 Don’t get angry casually, you can change
when you know your mistakes, sometimes,
is wrong, it’s wrong.
must accept the consequences of things calmly.
Don’t get angry because you did something wrong,
others say a few words to you,
,
even spread your anger to others.

6 Learn to clear the zero, let your heart calm
The stronger a person's ability to heal, the closer
is to a happy life.
learn to turn things that were full of complaints yesterday. After
has a nap,
wake up and convert them into motivation.
clear bad people and things, and
calms your heart.
makes your heart stronger.
