Many people think that their life is over after experiencing major failures in life. The hard work of my years of hard work has been wasted, or it may be in debt. Becoming timid, inferior, and not daring to have any expectations for the future, and even more so, they give up their lives. . People who dare to give up their lives dare not face the unpredictable future . It is a pity.
people will make mistakes, awesome people make "big mistakes", and ordinary people make "small mistakes". People will fail too. Don’t describe your life as bleak when you experience a major failure. Most people can stand up after a major failure. (I say that most people, such as some people who violate the law, spend the rest of their lives in prison, and such people cannot turn over.)
mentioned failure and debt, and I had to think of , the founder of , Luo Yonghao, Luo, Luo Yonghao, , after the company went bankrupt, the maximum debt in 2018 reached more than 600 million. From a big boss with a net worth of over 100 million, he quickly became a broken deadbeat. On the show, he said that he wanted to commit suicide. It can be seen that in the face of severe damage, the great people will also fall into despair, so our depression in the dilemma is completely normal. Later, under the guidance of his master Feng Tang, he did Douyin sales and paid 400 million yuan in two years. His current debt had already been paid off and he became a entrepreneurship boss again.
I'm talking about fails once, or a major failure, and we can still stand up. It does not mean that after failures every time or several times, you will definitely be able to stand up . Why do everyone emphasize that ordinary children are difficult to turn over? Because they make a major mistake and then stand up may be many years later. At that time, they will not dare to take risks without funds, and finally live a dull life. There are also some people who are scared and don’t want to stand up.
Back to Luo Yonghao's deeds, he did experience a very serious failure, but most of his previous entrepreneurial careers were successful. Will ordinary people become friends with Feng Tang? Will Feng Tang give advice if he becomes a friend? Will the other party implement the advice? So Luo Yonghao has such a high level, such cognition, such ability, and such connections. These are the successes he has achieved in the past. There are countless big names in , Douyin, . Why did Luo Yonghao succeed? Because even though his company is now closed down, he still has a good reputation and popularity. When I had never heard of Luo Yonghao, I had a college classmate who said in our circle every day that I wanted to buy a Hammer mobile phone. What I bought is not a mobile phone, but a sentiment. In fact, these are the successes he has achieved in the past. Therefore, the occasional failure of a person in can be filled with countless successful experiences, cases, abilities, etc. to remedy .
I have read a sentence a long time ago: "What happens to you is to bear in mind that you otherwise it won't happen to ". Although I once scoffed at this sentence, I can only believe that it is right when I am desperate.
You may think, how do we compete with Luo Yonghao? Then I can only show up and speak.
As an ordinary office worker, I was cheated of 850,000 yuan in September 2021. For several months, I was desperate every day and couldn’t see the future. I felt that I could make a year. I had to spend some of the money I earned for living expenses. How much can I leave? How many years will I have to live for this? Actually, I don’t know how long I will suffer for this now. But there is one thing I can be sure of, and this hurdle must be passed. Just like now, I not only don’t feel pain, but I feel that life hard work every day makes me feel extremely at ease.
As mentioned above, the premise of turning around is that most of the previous life was successful. used all the successes of the past to pay for this failure , or fought against the painful failure. Being cheated last year was the first very serious failure in my life.Therefore, it is necessary to describe my positive or successful experience. I am an undergraduate. Although I am not outstanding, when I have no money, I can at least find a relatively stable job to support myself, so that I will not be anxious to cry every day. After graduation, I have been studying hard or verified, and I have a little more competitive advantage than people of the same age and field. I can also choose a job when I look for a job. I have never asked for others since I was a child, and I have also helped some friends. Therefore, when I need help, someone is willing to help me; in fact, there are still many, and there is no need to list them one by one.
Let me say more. I will live very cautiously in the next few years. I cannot make big mistakes again, and I will not allow myself to make big mistakes. pays for my mistakes. This is natural . Don’t feel wronged.
Whether you are in the highlight of success in your life or in the underestimated moment in your life, you can start working hard and starting to change from now on. At this moment, you cannot change the past, but you have to create the future with your own hands.
Life is about experience. Wealth is not brought by life or death. The more you experience, the more you earn in life, the more you earn in life than others.
