It’s late at night, the sky is cold, and the flowers are sleeping.
People want to sleep, and their minds are calm, so they can be quiet.
Meditation, think and grow.
The world rotates at high speed during the day, noisy and impetuous, making people unable to stop thinking. At night, it is late at night and there is no disturbance to everyone, and the heart is free of turmoil, which seems luxurious and precious. At this point, it is like a mirror that reflects everything you do. Some vague and invisible thoughts will become clearer and more transparent. In the past, fast switching like a movie, I wonder whether my words and deeds are appropriate and where I need to improve; whether I still have to stick to meditation and continue! Sometimes for yourself, sometimes for the person you pursue!
is like this. In reflection, I took out my heart and stitched it, and then stuffed it back, just to prevent myself from being infected with the toxicity of the surface of life and being intoxicated by self-confessional happiness.
" Caigen Tan " says: "Late at night, people are quiet, sitting alone to observe their hearts, and then they realize that they are delusional and true to them, and they always gain great fun in this."
When a person is quiet at night, reflect and observe his own heart, he will find that the delusions disappear and true feelings are revealed! Quietness has immersed our impetuous hearts and is no longer confused and lost. Every time at this time, you will understand the true meaning of life, as if you have found a destination and have a direction, you will live a vibrant life!
Learn, think hard and reflect more.
In oracle bone inscriptions, "saving" is like an eye observing plants and trees. The eyes look at the world, and the heart. "Reflection" means seeing every blade of grass and tree in your heart!
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The biggest advantage of a little girl is that she can "reflect on herself"! Unfortunately, the shortcomings are the same... Let’s talk about it later!
Why do people need to reflect on it?
Because it can cultivate, it is purely a person's conscience. Be pure and good-hearted yourself!
No one can be perfect, they will say the wrong things and do the wrong things. What you think is just what you think! It is also possible that you have not said the wrong thing or done the wrong thing, but in some cases, because of your outspokenness and freedom, it has an impact on things or others see you wrong, but let it go, and quietly watch you fall into the quagmire... etc., regardless of subjective or objective reasons, you are wrong! At this time, you should reflect on your words and deeds to see if you can make up for anything, or how to avoid similar things!
The little woman is never afraid of reflection. If you should admit your mistake, you should admit your mistake, and if you should bow your head, you should bow your head. Even if the argument was red in the last second, and the next second, I realized that it was my fault, I would apologize to the other party without hesitation. I won't feel embarrassed and can't say it. This is also what I like myself!
"Xunzi·Encouraging Learning" says: A gentleman is knowledgeable and meticulous every day, and then he will know that he is clear and does nothing wrong.
has extensive knowledge. If you review and examine your words and deeds every day, you will be wise and wise, make fewer mistakes and no more mistakes, and reduce your mistakes in action.
people are more likely to have self-knowledge. After reflection, my spiritual realm will be higher, and even if there are tens of millions of people, I will go there. Fearless and move forward bravely.
" Analects of Confucius·Learn " Chapter 4, Zengzi said: I examine myself three times a day. Are you unfaithful when planning others? Do you make friends without believing them? Can't you pass on it?
Always reflect on yourself: whether you are seeking truth from facts on the road of growth, whether you are trying your best; whether you are sincere in communicating with friends, whether you can improve your cognitive ability; whether you are diligent in your studies, and whether the historical experience accumulated over the years is applicable to the present.
Only by reflecting on one's own will you not be blinded by the illusion of appearances and see your true self and the real world. Do not blame others for making mistakes, and do not excuse yourself. Achieve self-growth and evolve towards perfection!
dare to reflect, but you must understand it even more.
Excessive reflection will lead to a self-negation mentality. This is why I say "reflection" is also my shortcomings!
The "Caigen Tan" mentioned earlier actually has the second half of the sentence:
"I feel that it is true and cannot escape, but I feel very ashamed of it."
After reflection, when the true feelings are revealed, I find that the delusions are difficult to fade, and then I feel deeply guilty in my heart.
Over-reflection often leads to self-doubt, and emotions will become lost and even inferior! Why did I become like this? Why can't you do it better? Why do you always repeat the previous mistakes? Am I really that bad?
In an instant, I lost my enthusiasm for this world.
So, reflection is not just a kind of courage, but also a kind of wisdom.
Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles, traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people, reading countless people is not as good as famous teachers to guide the way, and it is better to understand it yourself than to guide the way.
Life is long, be careful to reflect on yourself, cultivate yourself and self-discipline, and think and grow!
encourage each other!
