Author丨Chiyu
The existence of the circle of friends is for sharing.
Before, a girl asked me: What content can’t be posted on WeChat Moments? My mentality at that time was: This is your circle of friends. You don’t have to care so much. Post whatever you want. Just be happy. People who don’t want to see will naturally block you, and people who are willing to see will keep reading.
But later I gradually discovered: Most of us always live in the environment.
If you want to say that you really don’t care about other people’s opinions at all. There are really few people who live self-centered and freely, and it can even be said that they do not exist.
In life, everyone will wear a personal mask accordingly and create corresponding character designs. After all, you cannot really be independent in the world and never interact with anyone.
And your circle of friends is largely one of the ways of expressing it.
So, from this perspective, when posting on Moments, it is best to post less things that are not conducive to you.
Meet a shallow girl and always likes to post 3 content on your circle of friends. It is cheap but not self-knowing, which is heartbreaking.
01. Show off what the opposite sex bought for themselves or the red envelopes sent by them;
I once saw a neighbor, and the host randomly interviewed boys on the street and asked in their eyes, which kind of girl who often posted on WeChat Moments is more expensive?
Basically everyone talks about this: always shows off what boys buy for themselves, and red envelopes sent, and then post the screenshots.
is not occasionally, but can be seen every now and then.
Then, someone added: is not a boyfriend, but a friend of the opposite sex.
It is obvious that girls who do this hope to create a very popular impression. There are many boys who are pursuing themselves and being good to themselves, but the more they do this, the more they are, the more likely they will leave a bad impression in the hearts of outsiders.
Moreover, it is basically impossible for the other half to be attracted by this method to be really excellent or the quality is good. On the contrary, they are basically people with bad intentions.
Because of this behavior, the feeling that it is conveyed to outsiders is: This girl is easier to chase after. She only needs a little gift and a little red envelope to impress.
Once people have such an impression, even if a boy pursues this girl, it is probably just a short choice. He didn't think about falling in love from the beginning, but they would definitely not say it directly. Therefore, as a girl, you should also pay attention to your personality in front of outsiders while learning to distinguish.
What kind of person are you, and what you ultimately attract is what kind of person you are.
I see some people saying that they will post red envelopes from their family or friends or lovers to themselves on certain specific festivals, such as birthdays, etc. I think this is pure sharing. First, the particularity of time, which everyone can see is out of a happy subconscious expression; second, they are not often posted, and at this time, people often don’t have any too many thoughts about this situation.
02. It is all pessimistic and negative content;
Everyone's emotions are roughly divided into joy, anger, sorrow and happiness. A person cannot always be happy, nor can he always be depressed and depressed.
Therefore, it is normal to have a mood repetition, it depends on how you adjust it.
Some people only share things that make themselves happy in their circle of friends, but some people only show their pessimistic side in their circle of friends.
The latter is really easy to leave a stereotyped impression: This person is too fragile and has too many feelings.
At this time, no matter whether you are from the standpoint of a friend or the standpoint of a stranger, you will not have any good impressions.
People's subconscious mindset still tends to be with beautiful things. These things they like to see are basically the same. If a person who is always pessimistic, it will inevitably affect himself, so he would rather choose to stay away.
Before, there was a girl in my circle of friends. Her circle of friends was basically in this style. Sometimes there were several contents, all of which were very negative. They said that it was not good here and there, and they were in a bad mood today, and they were generally worse tomorrow.
I usually don’t block my friends because I like to watch the lives of different people. Whether it’s for showing off children, food, go out and play, I can watch them very happily.
But I finally blocked her. I felt that after reading too much of what she wrote, my mood would be slightly affected.
Moreover, to be honest, such people are likely to give outsiders the impression that " is very weak and has a very unstable mood ". Even in real life, they will not be willing to go to too much contact.
03. Always criticize others, the content is very extreme;
There is such a kind of person who is always in other people's minds. No matter what happens, they always find faults from others. After scolding this and that, they are smart people in the world and wise people.
and will also post these things in the circle of friends in a false sense. To outsiders, what they express is actually more extreme and not objective enough, but they themselves will think that it is a straight-tempered and say whatever they have. If you post content like
occasionally, it will definitely be nothing to post, but if the proportion is too high, no matter how reasonable you think you are or how content you say, it will give people a feeling that you are very cheap and mess around.
To put it bluntly, it is best to post less in your circle of friends similar to these things that express your emotions. The relationship between people is inherently due to certain unknowns, and corresponding respect and understanding are generated.
No matter which aspect you are, the more you expose yourself, the more you will be the one who will be unfavorable in the end.
What should be hidden in your heart should be hidden in your heart. Of course, if you insist on sending it out, it will definitely not work. But at the same time, you must be able to accept the corresponding consequences of this behavior.
Remember.
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