As a blogger, it actually suffers from various attacks every day. There will be all kinds of voices on the Internet, some attack your appearance, some slander your reputation, and some curse your parents.
Various sounds fill our online world, but I also survived well.
Everyone has different cognition and thinking. We are not RMB and cannot make everyone like it. We can only face the most real life.
The greatest decency for adults is actually to let go of the so-called face and make money. Those slander and insults, those rumors and gossip will only make us stronger and stronger.
Put down the stern face, the world is invincible
From a writer to a video shooter. In fact, I have also experienced a long struggle period.
The year when the mask problem broke out, several of my application-issuing platforms all closed down and I was in a dilemma of no income.
In order to continue this career, I began to update daily on various platforms. At first, I just wrote something, but later I planned to shoot a video.
Sometimes, facing the camera, I can't say a complete paragraph. Even after finishing it, it feels very unnatural.
Once, I lost confidence in this matter. After about a month of suspension, I stood in front of the camera again and tried to shoot more than a dozen short videos in a row, slowly finding the feeling.
At the beginning, I only dared to post videos to platforms that have no acquaintances to follow. I always feel that it is not good to talk about sensitive topics and be seen by friends and relatives.
Later, I slowly figured out that in fact, those relatives and friends would not pay attention to your content. Even if we see it, so what? Anyway, the relationship between men and women is something that each of us will encounter. Some people just do it secretly and don't say it out.
So, now I'm sending it almost all the network. As long as you are not embarrassed, the embarrassing person will always be someone else.
Put the lower ones, and then there is a fan in
. I have followed me for a while.
Her husband committed a few years ago and went in. The sentence of four years in prison and they have two children means that she has to bear all the financial and life pressures by herself.
She works in public institution , and her job is stable, but her salary is not high either.
Now, she feels confused and doesn't know how to increase her income and cope with her current life.
I suggest her do some side jobs, such as short video monetization, etc.
She said: I dare not face the camera, and I always feel lacking in confidence.
I said: There will always be a start, and it will always take a process. Your attempts and exploration may not have any results, but at least you have worked hard.
She still has some doubts: I am always afraid that my colleagues and leaders will see it and give them a bad impression.
I smiled and said: Can the leader give you more bonuses, and can colleagues give you more salary?
Of course, this is impossible. Others will only comfort your emotions occasionally, but they will not give you real money. Even if you borrow it, you have to pay it back.
So, face is really not important in the face of reality. We are facing a heart-wrenching life. Only by letting go of our pride and letting go of our hearts can we go far.
The world of adults is not connected with joy and sorrow, but only to pass on yourself
. I saw this passage online:
The real hero is the person who takes out his damaged heart when he is quiet in the middle of the night, stuffs it in, squint for a while, and wakes up and works hard again. This is true for
. Only you know your pain and sorrow. Happy things can be shared. It is best to digest the painful experience by yourself.
The only thing we can do is to keep healing ourselves. Don’t be pretentious when you are a person, don’t procrastinate when doing things. Try to strive for what you want; try hard to explore.
I am more willing to face my life directly than the chicken soup of the soul.
In places we can’t see, many people are working hard silently. No one is more noble than anyone, and no one is more comfortable than anyone. Without unique conditions and strong family background, everyone is an ordinary person. If you work hard, you will not have any results. But if you don’t try or work hard, there will be no new possibilities in life.
Adults who put their faces on their faces, and they will also discover another wonderful thing in life after the loneliest and longest time.
Face is the hardest thing to let go and the most useless thing.
Face is for others to see, and living well is the most important thing.
A blogger once said this:
Money is like your underwear, you have to have it, but you don’t have to show it to others every day, what color it is.
Doing a career is like getting pregnant. If you have to be full term, you will easily have miscarriage if you are anxious.
If you succeed, farting makes sense. If you fail, no matter how much it makes sense, you will be farting.
Adults, put aside their pride and make money well.
