The situation in life is always up and down, and wandering with the flow. In life, you will always encounter unhappy, tangled, and troubled things, and you will always meet people you don’t like. Please don’t be too obsessed with it. Learn to keep your mind stable and natural, become more open-minded and cheerful, and you will definitely be happier than you are now.
People are actually constantly cultivating their minds. Cultivate a normal heart, a happy heart, and a compassionate heart, that's it. Because all external environments are manifestations of our inner hearts, the reality of this world does not depend on itself, nor has anything to do with others. What is your heart, this world is like. When you feel "tired", you might as well recite the following three sentences silently, and everything will naturally become clear.
1. I am the root of everything. The reason why people have troubles is because the outside world conflicts with their inner expectations. We think that others should not say this or do this, but as a result, others should do such words and deeds; we think that the development of a thing should be like this, but it does the opposite.
Many "accidental" situations are not what I imagined in my heart, so troubles and pain come into being. Please tell yourself that all the problems are not in the outside world, but in ourselves. "I" is the root of everything.
2. Only when I change can people and things outside change accordingly. Since we have troubles, we must change it. Don’t move forward to change people and things outside the world. You should still start from yourself. Do you have any problems with "I" yourself? Can I adjust my own thoughts, language and behaviors to adapt to the people, things, things and environment around you?
What is the result of a thing? Whether it depends on yourself, others, or the environment, it depends on who has greater power. If you have enough power, you can lead things to follow you. If your own efforts are too weak and the people and environment around you are a major trend, then you can only change yourself, adapt to others, adapt to the environment, and follow the trend.
3. The bigger my heart is, the bigger the world is, and the greater the blessings are. If you really want to "make a decision", keep making yourself stronger. If you are truly strong enough, others and other things will naturally be driven by you and follow you.
A person’s life is the cultivation of his mind and nature. A truly high-level person is a person with extremely strong hearts. There will be countless people and countless objects around him. Therefore, the bigger your heart is, the bigger the world is, and the greater the blessings are. Everything comes naturally and there is no need to force it.
